I love my boyfriend but I'm being tempted by other men

Men also do this pretty regularly.

And OP: I think you know what to do.


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I'm not gonna cheat on him! I meant in my OP that I found titillating the thought of having a ONS with the guy from work with my boyfriend's permission. I'm not actually gonna do it.

I meant I was thinking about having a ONS with the guy from work with my boyfriend's permission and then returning to my boyfriend. It was a thought I knew couldn't be put into practice.

I said "most", and therefore wasn't targeting you.

You can't tell a stranger on the internet how they feel, which is why I posed questions to her so she can work it out for herself. Relationships and emotions are much more complex than "Attracted to someone else? You're an evil loveless whore!"

There is also an enormous difference between considering/fantasising about something and actually going ahead with it.

I'd love to try him out for one night and then return to my lovely boyfriend

This is women for you in 2014. They treat men like cars, things to use and dispose of once they are bored and can upgrade to a better model.

He's a human being. Not a Nokia 3210 you can just get rid of once you've got your eyes on an iPhone.

No doubt she will sleep with this other guy and he will not be interested in anything serious and she will then blame the guy for using her as opposed to her wanting to test drive before waltzing back home to her boyfriend.

This is women for you in 2014. They treat men like cars, things to use and dispose of once they are bored and can upgrade to a better model.

He's a human being. Not a Nokia 3210 you can just get rid of once you've got your eyes on an iPhone.

No doubt she will sleep with this other guy and he will not be interested in anything serious and she will then blame the guy for using her as opposed to her wanting to test drive before waltzing back home to her boyfriend.

No!!!!!! Please don't get me wrong! I do NOT view my boyfriend as a disposable object. He's my best friend in the whole world and every cell of my being admires him immensely.

I just... I dunno... I dunno.

But you aren't in love with him.


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No!!!!!! Please don't get me wrong! I do NOT view my boyfriend as a disposable object. He's my best friend in the whole world and every cell of my being admires him immensely.

I just... I dunno... I dunno.

I am. I think maybe I'm having these unfaithful thoughts is because even though he's a fantastic person in so many ways, I hardly ever see him. It's not through any fault of his own that I rarely see him (he has many extremely important commitments that are confidential), but I just feel like... what's the point in being in a relationship with someone you almost never get to see? Every time we part, I know I won't be seeing him again for ages.

I've been with my lovely, amazing boyfriend, who is also my best friend, for a year and 5 months. The thing is... I'm finding myself becoming increasingly tempted sexually by two other men.

The thing is, I see my boyfriend once a fortnight on average because he's quite busy, whereas I see the two other men I'm interested in almost every day because they're my colleagues. One of the other men I'm only slightly interested in, but the other one I'm finding irresistable, to be honest... and I see him all the time! Sometimes the temptation is so strong I feel like I'm gonna explode!

I'd love to try him out for one night and then return to my lovely boyfriend, who I do love very much, but I know relationships don't work like that.

The thing is, I'm not even sure it's gonna work long-term with my boyfriend. I'm 20 and he's an older guy with a daughter and his own busy life and honestly, I can't see all this reconciling for the better. But parting from my boyfriend would mean losing the best friend I ever had. What do I do?

Men also do this pretty regularly.

And OP: I think you know what to do.


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Can I ask that this thread be deleted please????

Why?


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I regret making it...

No!!!!!! Please don't get me wrong! I do NOT view my boyfriend as a disposable object. He's my best friend in the whole world and every cell of my being admires him immensely.

I just... I dunno... I dunno.

I am. I think maybe I'm having these unfaithful thoughts is because even though he's a fantastic person in so many ways, I hardly ever see him. It's not through any fault of his own that I rarely see him (he has many extremely important commitments that are confidential), but I just feel like... what's the point in being in a relationship with someone you almost never get to see? Every time we part, I know I won't be seeing him again for ages.