I've been told that I'm pretty, but I don't get approached by guys

Why may this be?

I get lots of stares from the guys at uni, but that's it really.

Could it be that I'm not massive on the social life?

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Reply 1

plusC

Possibly, you may also be in large groups of girls, or perhaps surrounded by tons of shy guys or perhaps guys think they will get shot down if they ask you.

Solutions
- Be alone around guys
- Ask a guy you like out
- Get more sociable

and don't forget to +C

Reply 2

Guy Secretan

How are we supposed to know/ Some guys wouldn't have the confdence to approach.

Reply 3

Silver Arrow

You're probably really fugly and everyone is just trying to be nice. Or you could just have a case of bitchy resting face which makes you come across haughty and unapproachable.

Why not try approaching guys you like and posting pics would help.

Reply 4

xOHarriet

It could well be that you're not massive on the social life. I get approached a lot when I'm out but not so much in everyday life, I guess the alcohol makes everyone more confident and sociable! Haha.

Could also be a confidence issue. If you're not approachable, you're not going to be approached. It's as simple as that. Make an effort with your appearance, laugh, smile, be someone who's fun to be around and they will come!

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

Original post by Silver Arrow

Well, I've not actually asked for compliments, but I've been given them! And without sounding arrogant, I know I'm above average looking!

Reply 6

Plasticity

Original post by Anonymous

Why may this be?

I get lots of stares from the guys at uni, but that's it really.

Could it be that I'm not massive on the social life?

Here's a radical thought, approach them?

Otherwise quit moaning and stop thinking you're entitled. Guys hardly ever get approached.

Reply 7

Last Day Lepers

Pics or didn't happen.

Reply 8

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Is there any point to this thread without pics?

Anyway, I would say 'pretty' or 'cute' is not what you want to be going for if you want to be approached.

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Reply 9

RHyoudon'kno

Original post by plusC

OP, this is good advice.

Erm, what's +C?

Reply 10

GenialGermanGent

Everyone is told they're pretty in this society which think it needs to make everyone feel good about themselves. It means nothing.

Reply 11

Chicken.M.

Original post by Anonymous

Well, I've not actually asked for compliments, but I've been given them! And without sounding arrogant, I know I'm above average looking!

Thats all well and good. But. Where are the pics?

Reply 12

Anonymous #1

Original post by TitanicTeutonicPhil

Everyone is told they're pretty in this society which think it needs to make everyone feel good about themselves. It means nothing.

But I know I'm pretty. May sound arrogant, but it had to be said

Reply 13

Anonymous Coward

Some girls are pretty without having sex appeal.
Nice to look at, but not really 'hot'. The equivalent of a 'cute' male.

Maybe you're one of them.

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Reply 14

livealittle

Original post by RHyoudon'kno

OP, this is good advice.

Erm, what's +C?

Haha its the constant of integration in maths :|
PlusC lurveeessss his constant :biggrin:

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Reply 15

Chicken.M.

Ye and some girls are hot but you wouldn't want to go near them because they have a slutty look.

Whereas another girl is less hot but looks very smiley and friendly and you just want to go up and talk to them. < Instantly fall in love with those types lol.