Okay...So I've been friends with this guy since last September (when we both started college.) He still keeps in contact with one of his old friends from school. Basically, she's a total bitch.
He has bad social anxiety and therefore doesn't really like going clubbing or being put in other social situations. But she blackmails him into going out with her.
He told us about this one time, she asked him to go to town with her clubbing. He said, no. She said back, oh, well, I went out with you last week...Bearing in mind that was for his birthday. He said no again, and she actually showed up at his house (they both live in the same small village.) She said she'd walked all the way back from the city to meet him, so he couldn't say no to going out. She also said it was just going to be them...But her boyfriend showed up "coincidentally." They proceeded to leave him all night to kiss and dance, etc, knowing he didn't like social situations.
He then left. That night she called his dad saying that he'd left her all alone in the middle of the city with no way of getting home. Really, it was because her and her boyfriend had broken up again (he says they break up a lot.) His dad loves her, so he got in trouble for it.
He told us that it was the end...That they'd fallen out for good, and I was happy because I'd met her once (for his birthday), and instantly didn't like her. But then he apologized like two days later
He actually believed it was his fault and that he should've told her he was leaving.
She even forced him to come early to her house and set-up for this house party she was having. He didn't even want to go in the first place, especially if he couldn't meet us for a drink beforehand. But his dad convinced him to go. He got absolutely pass-out drunk, and she kept saying he could stay at her house, but we under no circumstances were going to let that happen.
Ughhhhh, and now this is happening again and again. She's blackmailing him constantly to go out and do things he doesn't want to do. He won't end it!
When we ask about it he tells us that they've been friends since they were kids and are best friends. He went to the same secondary school because she was going there and he constantly says she was his only friend there. He keeps saying that it's not like that when it's just them and that it never used to be like that. But...So what? It's like that now! He's just being taken advantage of time and time again and he can't even see it.
What the hell can I do to help? If anything...I hate seeing him getting used like this :/ How can I make him see that she's a total bitch?
Oh by the way, before anyone says he likes her, he doesn't. He's gay, actually.