What's the most extreme sexual past you would accept in a partner? (1-10 scale)

Is the age of consent now 16 months instead of 16 years?


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I'm engaged and we have a 1 year old, and trust me it doesnt do any good questioning your partners sexual past,, 1, they could always lie and 2, you should have enough trust and good judgment before you marry, another thing just because someone was a virgin before you met doesn't mean they will always be faithful to you, they might become resentful of the fact you have had more sexual partners and just because someone was more promiscuous doesn't mean they are guaranteed to cheat it's all swings and roundabouts, life is a roller coaster.

To those saying 8's and 9's - really??!! You would honestly be ok with your partner having been involved in multiple person sex with strangers and a partner who can't even remember how many people they've had sex with, or recall all the things they've done? Really? I honestly am quite shocked at the response.

I'm not insecure and fully understand people experiment, but does the above not seem a bit much for a long-term relationship? In my mind, it would take one hell of a strong person and a drastic change in their personality to lead the life of a pseudo-pornstar (as the OP put it) and then resort to an exclusive loving relationship with just one person. I'm not judging those that want to do the above - I totally agree everyone can lead the life they want to - but if you value sexual relationships, how can you expect to understand and be with a person who sees sex as something far more casual. Would it also not cause worries from the fact that they're lightyears ahead of you in experience and that satisfying their expectations of a "great night" may be quite difficult. Not sure how someone would be comfortable with knowing that most people in town have slept with your partner and then seeing them while out in town together.

Anyways thats my take on things.

So you found someone you like, good looking, funny, etc... What's the most they could have done in their sexual past before you no longer consider being in a relationship with them? Please pick the most you could live with, not what you'd prefer.

Pick between 1 and 10:

1. kissless virgin- has done next to nothing with the opposite sex (or same sex if homo).

2. 1 prior boyfriend/girlfriend- kissed + fondled but nothing more.

3. 1-2 prior boyfriends/girlfriends with whom they had normal sex with, but nothing crazy.

4. any number of prior boyfriends/girlfriends with whom they had normal sex with.

5. any number of prior boyfriends/girlfriends with whom they did stuff like anal sex, public sex, basically any kind of sexual activity just involving the 2 of them, inc. sex tapes.

6. same as 5., but also with 1-10 one night stands with whom they had normal sex with.

7. any number of prior boyfriends/girlfriends and at least 20 one night stands with whom they did any kind of sexual activity just involving the 2 of them.

8. multiple person sex ie. gangbangs, bukkakes, swinging, etc... with strangers.

9. pornstar- can't even remember how many people they've had sex with, or recall all the things they've done.

10. could put pornstars to shame- real hardcore 2 girls 1 cup type ****. Their number could be in the 1000s for all you know.

All this considering they are STI/STD free, and they will be loyal to you once you enter the relationship.

Also please state your age and gender, for example my answer would be:

3.
Male, 18.

p.s my idea of normal sex is simply penis and vagina sex, nothing more.
p.p.s this is just out of my curiosity.

To those saying 8's and 9's - really??!! You would honestly be ok with your partner having been involved in multiple person sex with strangers and a partner who can't even remember how many people they've had sex with, or recall all the things they've done? Really? I honestly am quite shocked at the response.

0.1 never even looked at the opposite sex

You into blind people then?

9.

1, i prefer virgin men.

Past in the past. Anyway I'm at least a 7 so it would be hypocritical to expect any less. I see sex as a pretty casual thing so I'm not that bothered about what they've done. I would be apprehensive if they had cheated on someone in the past though.


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Yes, I have been totally fine with a partner having group sex with strangers while we were in a relationship.

Not much, no

Who said the relationship would be exclusive? If that's what you both want, that's fine, but it's just as fine if you both want it not to be. The issues arise when A wants one thing and B wants another. There's a C for that, communication.

Sexual relationships can have different values. There's a difference between having penis-in-wherever sex with a condom and without a condom, for example. You might be the only person they're doing the latter with.

The past is in the past, as has been said lots of times.