Why do straight guys treat gay guys mean?

As I said earlier. From my experience. How gay people are treated will vary from town to town by for the boys that came out in my year very few thought any less of them.

I think that most straight boys, during the time they're at school, are too concerned by what everyone else would think of them associating with someone who's gay. So, because of that, they feel the need to make it v.e.r.y clear they don't like gays/aren't gay themselves. So, I think that most people don't themselves have an issue with homosexuals, just purely the attitudes of others if they were to be friends with them people.

However, there are many guys who are completely obsessed by girls and sex that they appear to believe that if they associate with a gay person, that gay person is going to want to have sex with them and it's not true at all.

There are also some heterosexuals who struggle with their own sexuality and vent their frustration by being homophobic and hoping that it will make them change for whatever reason. I have met people like this who turned out gay.

I do, however, completely disagree that loads of gays are feminine and have female attitudes and such - I think they just have been rejected by so many of their own gender that they feel it's necessary to do whatever they can to fit in with those that accept them which, 9 times out of 10, is a girl or group of girls. I know this from personal experience. I had a best friend who was straight and after I came out he rejected me and didn't want to be friends with me anymore and we were so close. So, due to that rejection I hung around with a big group of girls and started to pick up traits like bitchiness, speaking fast, higher pitched voice, being too forward, etc.etc.

After I realised that was just fake and pushing people away, I just stopped. I then had a few male friends. A lot of them stopped associating with me after their friends accused them of being gay because of me.

Quite funny actually, one boy in my year kissed me at my pals party and then returned to school and persecuted the life out of me for being gay - t'was amusing.

There are many that definitely think less of them but may not necessarily act on that. They just won't associate with them but then I guess this thread is about bullying so being vocal.

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Some gays are blessed with the ability to befriend straight boys :/

it is really true, i observed the way gay men talked during the Pride festival, it was like grown man trying to talk like hannah montanna. and then there was a man who was trying to dress like her to i think.
often straight men cannot relate to this culture.

it is really true, i observed the way gay men talked during the Pride festival, it was like grown man trying to talk like hannah montanna. and then there was a man who was trying to dress like her to i think.
often straight men cannot relate to this culture.

I agree with most apart from the feminine bit; tbh I find that a lot of gays I know are quite feminine and seem to gravitate naturally towards women as friends. In my opinion, I feel that gay couples (men or women) often take natural masc and fem roles which would be found in a hetero relationship. But of course there are many that aren't like that, but that's just how I feel. The more masc. gays can fit in with guys whereas the more fem. gays tend to gravitate towards women... idk just my opinion?

My friend came out a few months ago and I was cool with it and all. But after a while he started to milk it so much, it made so unbelievable which is annoying. But I have a few gay friends who aren't like that.

Also about the straight female thing. It's probably because they aren't nervous or anything because they aren't attracted but I don't really know

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All gay guys are blessed with the ability to befriend straight boys. They just need to find a straight boy that's not a narrow-minded b*****d.

I think that most straight boys, during the time they're at school, are too concerned by what everyone else would think of them associating with someone who's gay. So, because of that, they feel the need to make it v.e.r.y clear they don't like gays/aren't gay themselves. So, I think that most people don't themselves have an issue with homosexuals, just purely the attitudes of others if they were to be friends with them people. .

However, there are many guys who are completely obsessed by girls and sex that they appear to believe that if they associate with a gay person, that gay person is going to want to have sex with them and it's not true at all. .

There are also some heterosexuals who struggle with their own sexuality and vent their frustration by being homophobic and hoping that it will make them change for whatever reason. I have met people like this who turned out gay. .

I do, however, completely disagree that loads of gays are feminine and have female attitudes and such - I think they just have been rejected by so many of their own gender that they feel it's necessary to do whatever they can to fit in with those that accept them which, 9 times out of 10, is a girl or group of girls. I know this from personal experience. I had a best friend who was straight and after I came out he rejected me and didn't want to be friends with me anymore and we were so close. So, due to that rejection I hung around with a big group of girls and started to pick up traits like bitchiness, speaking fast, higher pitched voice, being too forward, etc.etc.

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Yeah true. Tbh white heterosexual males are pretty much the top of the social hierarchy and always have been (and probably always will be), and they, and everyone else, knows it.

And yeah you don't have to tell people true, but for some people it's impossible to hide their gayness, as I'm sure you're aware xD

I do treat them a little mean just to make sure there not trying to bang my backdoors in like 10 mins later.

or it could be that they dont see any familiarity with gay culture . so it depends how outwardly 'gay' you act. if tis not so much you probably would have more in common wit someone. but was with anything, if say someone was a EDL supporter and acted very right wing all the time, then most ppl would avoid him, prob he would only attract people with a likeminded attitude. if you knew someone that was very extreme evangenlical, or islamic, same- most poeple would stay away. people tend to congregate round others that have similar outlook or culture.
the lure of sex is powerful motive

i doubt they were hetrosexual, probably gay all along.

or its simply the fact that you may share more interests with women than you do with most hetrosexual men. i dont know why this is such a big issue, if a straight guy has little in common with a girls interests and doesnt mix with them, he does complain does he?

Where does race or sex come into it, I don't think there is an endemic racist or sexist bullying problem in British schools, though there is with gays. Let's not decontextualise for the sake of it, not only is it unwarranted, it's also wrong: clearly the social hierarchy at school is not generalisable to the outside world, otherwise your boss would be giving you swirlies every day in the company toilets.

I do treat them a little mean just to make sure there not trying to bang my backdoors in like 10 mins later.

I do treat them a little mean just to make sure there not trying to bang my backdoors in like 10 mins later.

Okay troll, okay.

I'm talking about society in general. That statement is 100% true.



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You talk about homosexuals as if they're untamed animals

Yet I bet you don't think it wrong of men to constantly seek sex from women, like practically everyone they speak to but its so wrong for gays to do the same with men... General statement.