I don't know if this is going to end up a scam or what to do?

Whether this is a scam or not, it's probably not going to benefit you getting attached to someone you've never met! But, scam artists can make a living just by scamming alone and so they have the time to talk to you for a while, get you interested and comfortable, and then begin asking for money. They need this bond to guilt trip you.

I met a girl online, spoke to her for a while, and now we've been talking on Skype almost daily for a few weeks.


I've never met her, she lives in a difference country. She's really nice and I love talking to her, as well as being pretty attractive. We aren't dating or anything, although she's asked me to fly and visit her several times
However recently she just informed me she slept with the person she's been working for, and that she thinks she's pregnant, and I'm the only person she's told.


I don't know why she told me at all, and what she expected as a reponse, I honestly have no clue, however I was nice and all as I could be although I have no idea what to say.


She constantly goes on about how little money she has and needs money, although she never exactly says what for (I presume rent and stuff).


Is this beginning to look like its going to end up being a scam, where she starts asking for money etc to help her as she's already said the potential father won't?


I really like her, but I don't know? Any advice on what exactly I should do?

Probably true, she does work as a Au Pair at times so they are employed. I just can't think of why you'd tell somebody you know obviously fancies you that you ****ed your employer a couple of nights before other than to lead up to "I need money for this kid".

She shouldn't even really need money for a kid just a few days after getting pregnant. To me it really sounds like a lie, either to get money from you, or even just to get sympathy. No matter how much this girl has befriended you you can't be sure that this story is true, as unfortunately a LOT of people lie online just because they can. Be careful!

Romania :/

Bit dodgy I guess, I just feel really sorry for her.

I met a girl online, spoke to her for a while, and now we've been talking on Skype almost daily for a few weeks.


I've never met her, she lives in a difference country. She's really nice and I love talking to her, as well as being pretty attractive. We aren't dating or anything, although she's asked me to fly and visit her several times
However recently she just informed me she slept with the person she's been working for, and that she thinks she's pregnant, and I'm the only person she's told.


I don't know why she told me at all, and what she expected as a reponse, I honestly have no clue, however I was nice and all as I could be although I have no idea what to say.


She constantly goes on about how little money she has and needs money, although she never exactly says what for (I presume rent and stuff).


Is this beginning to look like its going to end up being a scam, where she starts asking for money etc to help her as she's already said the potential father won't?


I really like her, but I don't know? Any advice on what exactly I should do?

Lol. Is she one of them cam girls that you pay tokens to see her tits online?

I met a girl online, spoke to her for a while, and now we've been talking on Skype almost daily for a few weeks.


I've never met her, she lives in a difference country. She's really nice and I love talking to her, as well as being pretty attractive. We aren't dating or anything, although she's asked me to fly and visit her several times
However recently she just informed me she slept with the person she's been working for, and that she thinks she's pregnant, and I'm the only person she's told.


I don't know why she told me at all, and what she expected as a reponse, I honestly have no clue, however I was nice and all as I could be although I have no idea what to say.


She constantly goes on about how little money she has and needs money, although she never exactly says what for (I presume rent and stuff).


Is this beginning to look like its going to end up being a scam, where she starts asking for money etc to help her as she's already said the potential father won't?


I really like her, but I don't know? Any advice on what exactly I should do?

I dunno, she could be?

Wasn't where I met her though and I wouldn't know. Porn is free?

She's got another kid she had when she was 15 so maybe its that.
I understand where your coming from, if she asked me again to go and meet her should I do it then so I know it wasn't a scam, or is that likely to be a final step in the scam itself?

She's maybe even a bloke....I'd go for 'its great and admirable that you're so determined to be independent and support yourself' 'I don't know how I'd cope..I struggle financially too and have giant student debts'.


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It doesn't matter how she'd take it. She shouldn't be asking people on the internet who she hasn't met before, for money. She should be worrying about how he's taken it (if she even exists). It's the internet; it doesn't matter at all and it's obviously a scam to get money from whoever she can get to feel sorry for her invented story.

Read the OP. She hasn't asked the OP. She hasn't even subtly suggested that the OP should send her money. She hasn't so much as sneezed in the OP's direction that the OP should send her money.

All we know is that she has confided in the OP that she's struggling with money.

I have read the OP. Anyone with a brain cell can tell where this is going; girl on the internet makes friends with gullible guy, sweet talks him, is nice and funny with him, builds up online relationship with him, subtly hints at money troubles, explains money troubles, repeats cycle until is sent money, deletes and blocks guy. The end.

It's obvious.