Had sex with a random guy... i'm normally high maintenance.

You had sex, think positive.

I have very high standards... USUALLY.
I talk to quite a few boys but most of them aren't people i'd consider a relationship with due to their attitudes. I still enjoy talking to them and flirt etc. I've been called high maintenance quite a few times, i'm inclined not to meet up for dates and sporadically reply. I stop talking to people who i feel have insulted me. Bitch is one word that really instigates this. Howeveeer, i met this guy after he stopped me on the street, he wasn't really nice and i had to work to keep the convo going. I'm quite young so most people my age don't have much experience however he's 6 years older and seemed to have more. Long story short we met up first time i refused to have sex with him and it ended in a blow job. Second time we had sex. Now he won't answer my calls/texts and hasn't spoken to me for like a day? I didn't actually want a relationship, he's too old. I just kinda wanted to have sex with him but now that i have i feel really really used and cheap and easy? What should i do because i really don't feel like constantly ringing him but i want to at least talk it over so i don't feel so easy...
I'm sexually inexperienced he's the second person i've ever slept with so please don't call me slut/hoe/slag
Why would he just cut me off like that, i would have assumed he'd at least want to have regular sex, he called me a couple hours after we had sex quite a few times and we talked for a bit, i said i'd call him back because i had to go and do something but when i did he didn't pick up...
To be fair it's only been a day but yeah....

Why would you want to see this guy again? You've said he wasn't very nice, he's ignoring you, you think he might be a drug dealer...


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This , don't feel guilty at all , there's nothing lost .

Girls should feel like guys when it comes to these matters , doesn't matter had sex ! Having casual sex doesn't make you a slut and you haven't lost any dignity.

Yeah thanks that made me feel better, but meaningless sex is better said that done

He has a very big ... Urm...

He has a very big ... Urm...

Why would you want to see this guy again? You've said he wasn't very nice, he's ignoring you, you think he might be a drug dealer...

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He has a very big ... Urm...

Lmao

perfect grounds for starting a long steady relationship, just have a big dick

I'm sure he's not the only one, and I bet most of them are more friendly than the guy you've just described

He has a very big ... Urm...

Definite troll.

No girl would stay with a guy that treats her bad simply because of that.

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Definite troll.

No girl would stay with a guy that treats her bad simply because of that.

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I have very high standards... USUALLY.
I talk to quite a few boys but most of them aren't people i'd consider a relationship with due to their attitudes. I still enjoy talking to them and flirt etc. I've been called high maintenance quite a few times, i'm inclined not to meet up for dates and sporadically reply. I stop talking to people who i feel have insulted me. Bitch is one word that really instigates this. Howeveeer, i met this guy after he stopped me on the street, he wasn't really nice and i had to work to keep the convo going. I'm quite young so most people my age don't have much experience however he's 6 years older and seemed to have more. Long story short we met up first time i refused to have sex with him and it ended in a blow job. Second time we had sex. Now he won't answer my calls/texts and hasn't spoken to me for like a day? I didn't actually want a relationship, he's too old. I just kinda wanted to have sex with him but now that i have i feel really really used and cheap and easy? What should i do because i really don't feel like constantly ringing him but i want to at least talk it over so i don't feel so easy...
I'm sexually inexperienced he's the second person i've ever slept with so please don't call me slut/hoe/slag
Why would he just cut me off like that, i would have assumed he'd at least want to have regular sex, he called me a couple hours after we had sex quite a few times and we talked for a bit, i said i'd call him back because i had to go and do something but when i did he didn't pick up...
To be fair it's only been a day but yeah....

Are you from Devon?

Lol u got picked up! Ur stringing along guys but fall for the jerk who's clearly going to be abusive if you pursue him, but you probably will try to pursue him because he's a playa. Ur too inexperienced sloot! Try to give the decent guys a chance. looooool.
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