Guys , would you marry a girl who's had sex with over 20 guys?

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To be honest, if you judge a woman on how many sexual partners she's had when you yourself have had more, then you need to get your priorities straight. It shouldn't make any difference so long as you love and trust her. Thinking in terms of her sexual partners reduces her to a thing whose value revolves around sex rather than virtues and vices, and if you can't see why that's wrong then I pity the woman who does end up with you.

Reply 21

keturah

Original post by StevieA

I certainly wouldn't lol. Adding a poll. And some related stats .

http://socialpathology.blogspot.ro/2010/09/sexual-partner-divorce-risk.html

http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_R-WhB9g9eYk/TJDSr8V_ShI/AAAAAAAAAOg/VmMGTymAVcI/s400/teachman

Hello drake/Jamie TT :rolleyes:

Reply 22

Damien_Dalgaard

Original post by Eva.Gregoria

If women didn't put out as much, there'd be far more elliot Rodger cases.

Men you should be thankful.

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If women spent more time and energy building businesses instead of hunting down wealthy men, there would be more equality in this world and women would deserve a higher status.

Reply 23

Bobbi!

Original post by Freudian Slip

Since

Original post by marm-alade

To bh you.

Original post by emmabakerxox

i've had bile

Original post by keturah

Hello drake/Jamie TT :rolleyes:

This guy doesn't want to marry someone with a moderate amount of sexual partners, because they'd be more likely to realise he's crap in bed :wink:

I mean if you're a virgin when you marry, you're more likely accept what you get and come to the conclusion that sex "isn't that great" if you're not compatible with your man!!

Reply 24

Bobbi!

Original post by emmabakerxox

i'e

Didn't mean to make you say "i've had bile" in my reply, sorry! lol

Reply 25

TheBBQ

Why do feminists have to ruin almost every thread :colonhash:

Reply 26

Mankytoes

I think this thread shows the age of people on here. The average age for women marrying in the UK is about 30 (http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/8415852/Average-age-for-women-to-marry-hits-30-for-first-time.html), so, if she lost her virginity at 16, that's like a new shag every 9 months to have twenty sexual partners, hardly extreme.

The logic in the studies is flawed, because it assumes divorces=bad marriages. Many conservative women have much greater barriers to divorce, even when very unhappy/abused.

Reply 27

Rakas21

I'm not sure, at 20 I'd certainly say she was a slut.

Reply 28

Jakeh

Number is irrelevant. Marriage is about the person. So yeah I would

Reply 29

JoeTSR

If, by the time I wanted to get married, the fact that they'd had less than 20 partners would be the warning sign. Even if they're not prudish/have something wrong with them, then they'd still probably not be in a good position to make a good judgement of who they want to spend the rest of their life with.

Although, what's that rule? Women divide the number of partners they've had by 3, men multiply?

(edited 9 years ago)

Reply 30

Tyrion_Lannister

Original post by Bobbi!

This guy doesn't want to marry someone with a moderate amount of sexual partners, because they'd be more likely to realise he's crap in bed :wink:

I mean if you're a virgin when you marry, you're more likely accept what you get and come to the conclusion that sex "isn't that great" if you're not compatible with your man!!

Reply 31

Malevolent

Not if she was 20. Im sorry but over 20 guys at the age of 20 no. At an older age say 28-30 thats fine.

Reply 32

JoeTSR

Original post by Malevolent

Not if she was 20. Im sorry but over 20 guys at the age of 20 no. At an older age say 28-30 thats fine.

Why would you be marrying someone at the age of 20? (ok, I know some do, but then that's usually a medium-term relationship plus growing up with them - which doesn't combine well with having 20 sexual partners)

(edited 9 years ago)

Reply 33

ElChapo

Original post by JoeTSR

Why would you be marrying someone at the age of 20?

It's not unheard of

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Reply 34

Malevolent

Original post by JoeTSR

Why would you be marrying someone at the age of 20?

People get married at earlier ages FYI.

Reply 35

JoeTSR

Original post by ElChapo

It's not unheard of

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Original post by Malevolent

People get married at earlier ages FYI.

Edited around the same time you both posted. If you were one of the unusual cases of marrying at 20, I can't see how that would easily combine with having double digit sexual partners, unless you take the decision of marriage incredibly lightly.

Reply 36

MagicNMedicine

Original post by Eva.Gregoria

If women didn't put out as much, there'd be far more elliot Rodger cases.

Men you should be thankful.

ha yeah these "meninists" that complain about women's promiscuous behaviour need to be careful what they wish for. Do they really want a more moralistic society where women are more selective about which men they choose....?

Especially if you're a short man