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Reply 220

Jakeh

If I could change what happened about 6 weeks ago, would I be any happier?

Reply 221

Skratch My Itch

Original post by Jakeh

If I could change what happened about 6 weeks ago, would I be any happier?

If it was a negative event, you probably would be, yeah.

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Reply 222

Jakeh

Original post by Skratch My Itch

If it was a negative event, you probably would be, yeah.

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Depends, it is negative now because it is so soon, but maybe after some more time, it might not be a negative!

I don't know. Life works in weird ways.

Reply 223

daisychain_

About how i'm going on holiday tomorrow and i haven't packed :s-smilie:

Reply 224

Skratch My Itch

Original post by Jakeh

Depends, it is negative now because it is so soon, but maybe after some more time, it might not be a negative!

I don't know. Life works in weird ways.

I really wanna know what you're on about now. Do you mind telling me?

Reply 225

claira

I want to go back and never go out with my bf hes a bastard and dont know if i should dump him or not after what he does. Help?

Reply 226

Jakeh

Original post by Skratch My Itch

I really wanna know what you're on about now. Do you mind telling me?

I broke up with a girl because I felt she was too controlling for me, after breaking up I've kinda regretted it a lot as she was a great part of my life and made me really happy. We were LDR so it was tough most of the time. Since breaking up I've struggled quite a lot and she's done things that in turn has hurt me. I struggle a lot to just break up and get over it. Probably to do with confidence issues within myself that I had before her but re-emerge. I find that when for me to be "happy" atm I look for it in a girl, which is wrong.

So obviously atm I am missing her like crazy because I feel so ****, but maybe, as time goes on (and I get some help) it may be for the best in the future.

Reply 227

xOHarriet

Original post by Jakeh

And by "too controlling" he means I wasn't okay with him going to a strip club lol

Reply 228

Jakeh

Original post by xOHarriet

And by "too controlling" he means I wasn't okay with him going to a strip club lol

There was more to it than that. But she is right, that was 1 element of it. I wasn't perfect.

Reply 229

Ndella

Original post by bubble999

I've kept myself very busy and it's been a great distraction and meant I have less time to worry :tongue:

also, I cant change anything, and I've finally managed to learn how to cope with stuff I can't change :tongue:

How are you feeling about it? Best of luck for it :smile:

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That's a good idea, I'm going to start running tomorrow and yeah you're completely right that there's nothing we can do about it. I think I'll try my hardest to accept it lol

The closer it comes, the more I'm questioning my abilities and the possibility of my future which is a bit worrying. But I need to cope. Thank you and I hope you get your firm as well :smile:

Reply 230

Andy98

A certain someone...

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Reply 231

TheTechN1304

how i'm already 3 weeks into summer yet i've done nothing

Reply 232

Skratch My Itch

Original post by xOHarriet

And by "too controlling" he means I wasn't okay with him going to a strip club lol

Being honest, you butting in all sour like that makes you come across like a bit of *****. I underatand your actual point. I think you're being reasonable, but the boy is clearly getting emotional and you're throwing shots publicly at him. Kinda crappy.

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Reply 233

xOHarriet

Original post by Skratch My Itch

F*** off. You know nothing

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Reply 234

LostGear

Original post by daisychain_

About how i'm going on holiday tomorrow and i haven't packed :s-smilie:

First world problems :lol:

Last minute holidays are always the best! :cool:

Original post by claira

I want to go back and never go out with my bf hes a bastard and dont know if i should dump him or not after what he does. Help?

What did he do?

Reply 235

yeah_baby

Original post by Silver Arrow

Thinking about how lazy and self destructive i am. Got plenty of business ideas but i just can't get my ass in gear and make money.

Ditto, wooooo

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Reply 236

Jakeh

Original post by Skratch My Itch

Just leave it dude. It isnt worth going into in public on the forum. Theres more to this kn both sides and it just isnt worth it. I can't win and I dont need it publicised anymore than it already is.

Reply 237

LostGear

Original post by EllieC130

My throat hurts, my varied reactions to my results and "damn it Ellesse get the hell off your phone and try and get your first chapter done".

Same here

I think I'm ready to throw this smartphone away :lol:

Original post by Jakeh

If I could change what happened about 6 weeks ago, would I be any happier?

is there any chance you and her can get back together and resolve your issues?

If not possible, then you just gotta stop looking what you did wrong in the past man and instead look at what you can do right in the present/future :smile:

Reply 238

LostGear