Should women, married to men, take their husbands last name?

Nah, doesn't matter either way. We're going with what sounds best.

It is a choice?

Plus I'm not sure why sexuality should come in to it?

Because gay marriage hasn't always been legal.
In the heterosexual marriages i think i read 90% of women change their last names.
The question is to provoke discussion. And see where people stand.
Plus I had to put heterosexual women, not all women who get married, marry a man. That would be assuming. And i wanted to ask specifically about male female relationships.
Which, I can do.

Not all women who marry a man are heterosexual. Just saying.

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Not necessarily unless they wish it. But the children should have a combined surname made of names of the parents.

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Women again trying to make it seem like they are being oppressed by men. Nothing new to see here.

(I think it should be a choice for either partner not a necessity. )

100% choice of the couple in question

Personally, I'm definitely going to take on my husband's name if I marry.

I basically agree with this. I think it's sad that so many women readily give up their identities (to adopt someone else's) though. In an ideal world I would keep my name or hybridise/remix it with my partner's. I don't like the idea of all of my future offspring having only my husband's name, either. Anything that sits in my womb for 9 months is coming out with my [hybridised] name on it!