Girls!!! What do you look for in a guy?

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Reply 60

RyRy1998

Original post by chocolatesauce

Not really, if you've made your feelings clear and they still go then they're not the one for you :smile:

Well I suppose... The last time that happened she actually said I was TOO nice...

Reply 61

suzywithaZY

Original post by Ryan-Slade

Just wondering :smile:

What's wrong with a sensitive guy ?

I just can't handle sensitive people in general. I'm not a very emotional person or very into talking about my feelings so a sensitive person will just piss me off

Reply 62

holmes221

Original post by thechemistress

It was all going so well until I read 'sensitive'. No, just no.

I fully understand. Its really if im in a bad mood / tired. I don't like it in girls either.

Reply 63

RyRy1998

Original post by thechemistress

I just can't handle sensitive people in general. I'm not a very emotional person or very into talking about my feelings so a sensitive person will just piss me off

Ahh fair enough

Reply 64

chocolatesauce

Original post by Ryan-Slade

Well I suppose... The last time that happened she actually said I was TOO nice...

She probably though you were too nice to be true or something although I'm sure you were only being yourself

Reply 65

RyRy1998

Original post by chocolatesauce

She probably though you were too nice to be true or something although I'm sure you were only being yourself

Someone else told me that, but seriously what the hell, surely "too nice to be true" is a good thing?

Reply 66

chocolatesauce

Original post by Ryan-Slade

Someone else told me that, but seriously what the hell, surely "too nice to be true" is a good thing?

Not neccesarily, it could just mean she thinks you're two faced or have different personalities.

Reply 67

The vampire

Humour. If you're not funny, you can **** off imo.

Reply 68

Ndella

Similar sense of humour
Doesn't take life too seriously
Out if the ordinary appearance - perfect is boring :tongue:

My standards aren't too high really

Reply 69

RyRy1998

Original post by chocolatesauce

Not neccesarily, it could just mean she thinks you're two faced or have different personalities.

Hmmm maybe, She also said I was too nice to other people, That's just the guy I am, I help people out, It's what I do. She used to get fed up if I agreed to help someone out with something... think she might have been a tad of an attention seeker.

Reply 70

RyRy1998

Original post by Ndella

Similar sense of humour
Doesn't take life too seriously
Out if the ordinary appearance - perfect is boring :tongue:

My standards aren't too high really

Totally agree! Perfect is boring, Like I said, I look for people that AREN'T perfect :smile:

Dunno why, You could put a perfect 10 and 6 next to eachother and I'd take the 6 :smile:

Reply 71

chocolatesauce

Original post by Ryan-Slade

Yeah or she got jealous, there's nothing wrong with helping people out, keep doing what you're doing but don't let people use you :smile:

Reply 72

RyRy1998

Original post by chocolatesauce

Yeah or she got jealous, there's nothing wrong with helping people out, keep doing what you're doing but don't let people use you :smile:

I will do thanks :smile:

Wasn't even as if I neglected her or anything, If we had plans I'd say no or arrange for a time we weren't doing anything. Even if she wasn't around she'd get the ump.

Reply 73

Anonymousmouse

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Reply 74

chocolatesauce

Original post by Ryan-Slade

I will do thanks :smile:

Wasn't even as if I neglected her or anything, If we had plans I'd say no or arrange for a time we weren't doing anything. Even if she wasn't around she'd get the ump.

Hmm it sounds like she felt as if she wasn't getting enough attention from you. I could be wrong...

Reply 75

WelshBluebird

Original post by thetrickyfox

+ Slightly mentally unbalanced. This sounds really odd but I have never more people I was attracted to than in my group therapy sessions. I guess crazy attracts crazy. Mentally unbalanced people are often more in touch with their emotions and better communicators, strangely. So to be more general, most people will go for people with personalities similar to their own. Try going after people who you actually have similarities with. Also people like people who are interesting. I hate to tell you no one wants to hear about you spending the day curtain shopping when they first meet you.

That isn't as odd as you may think tbh. Part of the attraction I had to one of my ex's was her uniqueness because of her craziness, so I kind of get what you mean.

Reply 76

RyRy1998

For those of you asking for a picture, this is about 2 years old but I don't exactly like the camera :smile:

Usually get told im a 4/5 :smile:

Take the piss as much as you want :smile:

Reply 77

RyRy1998

Original post by chocolatesauce

Hmm it sounds like she felt as if she wasn't getting enough attention from you. I could be wrong...

Ahh well

Reply 78

RyRy1998

Original post by WelshBluebird

That isn't as odd as you may think tbh. Part of the attraction I had to one of my ex's was her uniqueness because of her craziness, so I kind of get what you mean.

Totally agree, Its quirks and uniquness that makes a personality differnet from everyone elses :smile:

Reply 79

guppygould

Original post by Ryan-Slade

Ahh really? I do make an effort, I practically live by a pair of Jeans/Chinos and a casual shirt or tight fitting tee, Always well shaven ( Mostly because it grows in patchy and looks crap)

I could lie and say I make an effort. Just jeans and baggy T-shirts or shorts is all I really wear. I can't wear anything fitted or tight without reconsidering my life! Maybe a hoody too. I'm a hairy guy so I used to shave every day until about 3 and a half weeks ago when I realised that this is probably the last time I could get away without shaving a rocking a beard! Haha

-Leo