Really quite fancy a guy at work. We've chatted a bit, seem to get along well. Would love to get to know him better but outwith the confines of the workplace.
Think he's interested- he's showing many signs. But he's a little shy, plus work isn't the place to ask someone out (we work at a supermarket, so lots of people around). Don't know if he would ask me out or not for these reasons.
Should I take matters into my own hands? Sounds really lame but we are facebook friends- should I ask him out via message? We get literally no opportunity to talk in private at work, plus if a customer overheard us we could get into bother.
Guess i'm scared that getting asked out by a girl would emasculate some guys- would it? And why? Should I wait forever to see if he'll ask me out or should I just throw caution to the wind and do it? Don't really like the thought of being the chaser and i'd love him to ask me out but don't know if I have the patience to wait what could potentially be a long time