Still a virgin at 25

Oh it's a HUGE thing. If i were a woman, i'd like someone who perhaps may not be the best looking person but was able to handle themselves in social situations that range from everyday occurrences to maintaining composure in times of adversity.

Sure, looks are important. But personality really dictates the path of a relationship. E.g. (this is a crude example but) Guys who watch pr0n would definitely sleep with the girls they watch but wouldn't necessarily BE with them.

Isn't the fact that this gentleman isn't confident a little evidence against this malarkey?

I think you may have misunderstood the term closeted.

enlighten me

Google "in the closet"

Mate screw dignity and all that pride bull****. If you wanna lose your virginity it's quick, easy and relatively cheap, then you would not be on here asking for help regarding the issue.

^ This don't be such an arrogant twit OP no one cares

Mate screw dignity and all that pride bull****. If you wanna lose your virginity it's quick, easy and relatively cheap, then you would not be on here asking for help regarding the issue.

Is this how you lost yours lol

Is this how you lost yours lol

Firstly, try not to slip into the self-loathing phase where you are thinking of all your negative points.

Yeah, you have issues- so does everyone else.
I would suggest that start September with an open mind, a fresh start and work on yourself to be the best that YOU can be.

I understand the whole social awkwardness thing... but you are the only one that can help yourself in those situations. Try approaching people and just being more inquisitive when talking to others... building friendships, going out etc- all leads to opportunities of meeting someone.

I don't particularly like the idea of losing my virginty to a stranger (I also am a virgin, 18+- I'm not bad looking, and it isn't like I've never had the opportunity, it is just a choice). Just don't feel pressured.

Don't worry, I'm trying to stay virgin till 35.

Hahah Abdul, I know you are just 18... but look close to 30..

My real age is 32, my UK age is 18.

I am not surprised..

Unfortunately, I have not been able to secure the validation of friendships let alone a sustained relationship to the point where both participants engaged in sexual relations. Part of the relates to my ADD/Autistic tendencies, which distort my social functions; The other part relates to the fact that, hitherto, I was four stones overweight; The third and final is that I was closeted to all, even myself.
I am heading to university this September for a master’s degree.. What can I do?