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Original post by Tyrion_Lannister
Obviously the vast majority of people look average



Original post by what is this
Women don't all look the same but two women can look different but still be average.

Obviously i didn't mean it to be taken literally but the vast majority of women look average [and so do vast majority of men].


Oh god, that's usually what average is :facepalm:

For an average to be average either a majority of wooden must fit that description or there must be many people on either extremes.

Basically what Tyrion said above.

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I'm about a 6/10 if that, under 6ft and overweight and I've been in relationships with or have been seeing very good looking to average women. Granted i do lift but thats for strength and health reasons, not vanity, like so many Zyzz wannabes do. Depends entirely on the person.

The sort of shallow people the OP is on about are those that frequent clubs and unless you're a 9/10 and shredded you won't get a look in. Ever considered that there are thousands of women who go to more civilised places or stay in because this sort of environment they dislike? I'd honestly rather stay single than meet someone at a club.

Please don't pretend you can't punch above your weight just because you are a male. That's such a terrible victim complex you have there. Its all about how you carry yourself in attitude, outlook and attire etc. If I shave well, dress up smart, smile and don't take life too seriously I get approached. Shock horror. If I dress not so smart and can't be bothered socialising and have a negative attitude then I don't. If you're unwilling to put the effort in yourself not only into your body but how you act and carry yourself then why should anyone give you a chance? You can take yourself from a 4 to an 8 easy if you put the effort in and no I don't just mean lifting - your whole attitude/outlook needs to change.
Struggling to work out if the original post is nonsense, nonsense, misogynistic nonsense, or nonsense.

Why the hell does anyone quantify their appearance into a rating out of 10 on some objective scale which no-one can deduce.

Not to mention cultural differences, the inevitably individualised nature of such discussions. Just complete rubbish.
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Original post by Mubariz
Oh god, that's usually what average is :facepalm:

For an average to be average either a majority of wooden must fit that description or there must be many people on either extremes.

Basically what Tyrion said above.

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OK calm down Mubariz. You're tactics to get browny points with her is so obvious.

**** me if it was a guy this guy wouldn't have even posted. Women even get help when they don't need it yet the average guy could starve to death on the street and no one would care.
Original post by what is this
Pics? I doubt that you're the average Pakistani if you've been with Russians, french and British girls. You must look at least 7+/10. Also Eastern European girls look much hotter than British girls and Western girls in general [apart from Scandinavian girls].


No, I am average/below average. Actually needed my jaw reset recently due to it being crooked. I got with most of these women with braces on as well.

I don't do well in clubs or online/Tinder etc. I meet these girls through friends. The one's who like me a lot, they help me out with the girl if she is indecisive.

That is how you should be playing the game. It's called social proof.

I am also quite a humble guy, I know I am not Brad Pitt, and I don't try and sell myself to these girls that I am. I find a lot of them get attracted to me more when I keep it really real like that. They get attracted to my mysterious - eccentric personality. Often get described as charming, once they get to know me.


Well I mean I don't show any sense of entitlement to girls. Do you really think I go up to one and say ''yo you're mine and I deserve you'' ?!


They can smell it mate. It's like when you get a GF, generally more girls show you interest.
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Original post by Tyrion_Lannister
What exactly is your problem with me? This is the third time you've deliberately tried to instigate a fight, want to tell me what the matter is? Somehow I have a feeling you'll prefer to hide behind passive aggressive smileys :smile:


lets see a pic of your bf then
Original post by what is this

**** me if it was a guy this guy wouldn't have even posted. Women even get help when they don't need it yet the average guy could starve to death on the street and no one would care.


lol true , I think the stat was something like 90% of homeless are men .
Original post by what is this
I have to be impressed though I haven't yet seen the typical ''Yo bro I know a short, fat, bald guy who gets all the ladies man, it's all about confidence''.

Maybe my preachings and theories are having an effect and people are waking up.

Looks theory trumps all.


Well I've already told you about a friend who isn't conventionally attractive but gets loads of girls in another thread recently, which disproves your theory, which is why I assumed you put that "in before" in the OP. That seems to be the main reason for "inb4", to somehow make the obvious point which disproves your argument valid just by acknowledging it. So instead I clearly broke down why your conclusions from a link were wrong, and in response you... ignored it. Strong argument.
Original post by Sanctimonious
I'm about a 6/10 if that, under 6ft and overweight and I've been in relationships with or have been seeing very good looking to average women.


Pics of yourself? I really need some hope then if all these average looking guys are in relationships with good looking women. Personally I have never seen this, the girl is always worse looking than the guy.

Granted i do lift but thats for strength and health reasons, not vanity, like so many Zyzz wannabes do. Depends entirely on the person.


I too powerlift nowadays brah, bodybuilding is not the right way to go unless you're on roids.

Ever considered that there are thousands of women who go to more civilised places or stay in because this sort of environment they dislike? I'd honestly rather stay single than meet someone at a club.

But that's the thing 99% of women go to clubs every weekend.


Original post by blueskyblue
lol true , I think the stat was something like 90% of homeless are men .

Legit. Yet women have the nerve to complain that they find it tough in life or dating LMAO.
Original post by what is this
OK calm down Mubariz. You're tactics to get browny points with her is so obvious.

**** me if it was a guy this guy wouldn't have even posted. Women even get help when they don't need it yet the average guy could starve to death on the street and no one would care.


You don't know me, stop assuming.

I don't even like her as a person, I think she's quite vain and don't agree with her on a number of topics. She can read this is she wants to and I don't give a ****.

Maybe you are thirsty but I am not, so why don't you calm down.

Why don't you do something about your problems and stop with the stupid moaning.


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Original post by what is this


But that's the thing 99% of women go to clubs every weekend.



This is a bit ridiculous.

The only ones that go that often are students who are looking for attention or have no taste.
Original post by what is this


Legit. Yet women have the nerve to complain that they find it tough in life or dating LMAO.


A lot of women I have met over the years tend to have a sense of entitlement and are egotistical. If you don't fulfil their needs socially/dating, they can be quite ruthless.

A couple of times on TSR I have also experienced this. One thread that comes into mind, is where a guy was blatently being strung along - I told him, some girl chimes in and tries to personally attack me by bringing up my sex life as a way to justify her argument. Despite her knowing squat.

It's just the way it is.

Accept it.
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Riiiight.

No matter what you look like, a guy who rates girls is still a ****.
Original post by Paralove
Riiiight.

No matter what you look like, a guy who rates girls is still a ****.


Everyone rates each other one way or another.
Original post by fat_hobbit
No, I am average/below average. Actually needed my jaw reset recently due to it being crooked. I got with most of these women with braces on as well.


Mirin if this is true.


That is how you should be playing the game. It's called social proof.


Now that I'm out of uni without a social circle, tips on how to build a new one?


Original post by blueskyblue
This is a bit ridiculous.

The only ones that go that often are students who are looking for attention or have no taste.

Well I've only been exposed to student girls in my age [21], so we'll see if it's any different as time goes on.
Original post by fat_hobbit
A lot of women I have met over the years tend to have a sense of entitlement and are egotistical. If you don't fulfil their needs socially/dating, they can be quite ruthless.

A couple of times on TSR I have experienced this.

It's just the way it is.

Accept it.


Legit, most women are narcisssits and so are most men, but at least the women can back up that narcissism since they get attention from the male models.

Original post by Paralove
Riiiight.

No matter what you look like, a guy who rates girls is still a ****.

Lol someone is butthurt. Are you mad you've never been rated higher than a 3?

It doesn't matter though you'll probably still get a male model approaching you today at the club.


This thread needs someone to defend the OP. It's too one sided, you're all attacking him.
Original post by Cornelius


This thread needs someone to defend the OP. It's too one sided, you're all attacking him.


Maybe...

Just maybe...

Because he's completely wrong?

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I think women want a smart guy who's got self belief and a plan of some sort.

I think that's the top 20% of men.

It's sad but that's the world we live in. Most women aren't worth much time either. The 20% eventually find the other 20%.

I agree with most of the assumptions behind your OP. But you're fundamentally approval seeking.

You gotta live your own life and make your own life. It's all about you. You're not living to find and sleep with as many women as possible. That isn't a satisfying existence. You push into the world so that you are successful, and at some stage your success will involve her. Those one or two special women that you'll want to make the mother of your kids.

I love spending time with girls but I don't care what most of them think about me. They are the weaker sex. Most of them don't know what they want. 99% of the women on this forum, and most women, know very little about themselves. Don't take them so personally.
Original post by what is this

Not creepy and 'game' is all a load of ****.

If I not even a 3-4 then feelsbadman.


Original post by what is this

But they will through social circle game.


:confused:
Original post by Eva.Gregoria
Maybe...

Just maybe...

Because he's completely wrong?

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Uh huh because no two people can be completely wrong and back each other up. Everyone on here always side with those who are completely right. TSR = the beacon of Truth and Justice.

And I was trolling. Thread is getting boring without someone to give support to the OP (he's repeating himself, we need new "arguments").

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