Why is she going into a mood with me for?

Okay, so last night I went to my friend's party and I told my girlfriend about it the day before. She started asking me the usual questions 'is it a friend's party' 'what time you going' etc and I didn't mind because it shows she cares a lot for me. However everything was fine and she wanted to see how I looked so I sent her a picture of myself and without sounding too cocky I felt like I looked really good. However she suddenly goes into a mood with me. She didn't say anything about me looking good or anything but instead she just sends dull messages which she usually does when she is in a mood and she kept telling me to 'go have a good time'. I am super confused, is she worried about me going? I don't understand why because last week went she went out with her mate I was okay with it.

Reply 1

dawn94

She's probably a little jealous that you'll get hit on at the party for looking good?

Reply 2

0le

I'm curious, is there any reason why you didn't invite your gf along?

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

Original post by djpailo

I'm curious, is there any reason why you didn't invite your gf along?

She had to go somewhere with her Mum.

Reply 4

0le

Original post by Anonymous

She had to go somewhere with her Mum.

Okay, well that rules out her being annoyed because you didn't take her out :wink:

I think she is just uncomfortable that someone will hit on you. Best thing to do is to keep texting her throughout which will show you are still thinking about her.

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

Original post by djpailo

Okay, well that rules out her being annoyed because you didn't take her out :wink:

I think she is just uncomfortable that someone will hit on you. Best thing to do is to keep texting her throughout which will show you are still thinking about her.

Yess I think I should just message her once every few hours.

Reply 6

Limpopo

She is being a typical female control freak. Thats what a lot of relationships and marriages are about. Dont say i didnt warn you.

Reply 7

0le

Original post by Limpopo

She is being a typical female control freak. Thats what a lot of relationships and marriages are about. Dont say i didnt warn you.

Being jealous or lacking trust is totally different from being a control freak lol...

Reply 8

KhanNab

She's just a little miffed that her 'handsome prince' is going dressed so well. Of course, its normal to look presentable but she's afraid you might get hit on by someone else. iI's just the normal amount of 'jealousy' that a relationship requires. Nothing too much to worry about.

As the person above me said, text her throughout (1 every couple hours or something? Perhaps even when something interesting happens she can relate to).

Reply 9

Limpopo

Original post by djpailo

Being jealous or lacking trust is totally different from being a control freak lol...

Well one leads to another,either way its her problem.

Reply 10

KhanNab

Original post by Limpopo

She is being a typical female control freak. Thats what a lot of relationships and marriages are about. Dont say i didnt warn you.

Don't listen to this pratt. :fight:

Reply 11

Cobbler

Imagine her dressed up and looking hot and going to a party without you.
A party where there will be hot guys!
You now have your answer.
it's healthy, it means she thinks you are a catch. :wink:

Reply 12

Anonymous #1

Original post by Cobbler

Imagine her dressed up and looking hot and going to a party without you.
A party where there will be hot guys!
You now have your answer.
it's healthy, it means she thinks you are a catch. :wink:

So you think I should take her behaviour in a positive way then? I guess it shows how much she cares.

Reply 13

Cobbler

If I were you, I'd make a bit of a joke of it. I'd tease her by telling her how hot you are and that all the girls want you but she has you.
have a laugh about it and she'll probably feel silly but reassured at the same time.
you obviously think a lot of her and vice versa.

Reply 14

TheFKY

If there's anything that should concern you about your relationship, it's the fact that you've turned to dozens of strangers on an online forum for an answer instead of approaching the girl whose feelings you've brought into question.

Reply 15

Anonymous #1

Original post by TheFKY

I wanted opinions from people who won't judge me and have a mature attitude before I end up saying something silly to her, no harm in that.

Reply 16

TheFKY

Original post by Anonymous

I wanted opinions from people who won't judge me and have a mature attitude before I end up saying something silly to her, no harm in that.

Perhaps. All the same, your actions are counter-intuitive.

Reply 17

Anonymous #1

Original post by TheFKY

Perhaps. All the same, your actions are counter-intuitive.

That is your opinion.

Reply 18

TheFKY

Original post by Anonymous

That is your opinion.

It's not so much an opinion when both you and I know the answer you supposedly seek is best sought from the very girl you came to discuss, yet you admit to having avoided approaching her for one reason or another.

But I digress.