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Original post by qwerty_mad
Did you ever think a relationship could come from it??

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I did at the beginning yeah. But then I realised that our goals and lives were very different. A couple had children. It was mostly a physical attraction.
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Ndella
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You want them for the money right?
Original post by Anonymous
What did your family think?


My mum was like go for it!
As an 18 yr old woman with a 50 yr old boyfriend, let me tell you it totally works. If you're what he's looking for, and he's what you're looking for, then that's that!

I get surprisingly few comments (besides people asking honestly 'is he your dad'), he gets more trouble than I do! But if you're both mature and look like adults, people generally don't care. In fact, a lot of people are supportive once they see how happy we make each other :smile:
Original post by noshahmad
Why don't you like boys around your age?
Is it because they aren't mature enough?
I think dating someone so old is quite creepy OP they probably have a ex wife/ girlfriends and kids your age


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I don't dislike boys my own age, I just prefer them older. Even like in their 20's. There is just something I like about the thought of being with an older man. I guess maturity is one thing. And yeah that's true, they probably would. But it's not unusual, you know "my stepmom is the same age as me" etc.
Original post by Anonymous
As an 18 yr old woman with a 50 yr old boyfriend, let me tell you it totally works. If you're what he's looking for, and he's what you're looking for, then that's that!

I get surprisingly few comments (besides people asking honestly 'is he your dad'), he gets more trouble than I do! But if you're both mature and look like adults, people generally don't care. In fact, a lot of people are supportive once they see how happy we make each other :smile:


Ummm. Yeh wait till your 30 and he is close to hitting 70 and cannot get it up.

That is assuming that he doesn't have a myriad of other health issues along the way.

So much fun!
Original post by Ndella
You want them for the money right?


No. Being older doesn't mean being rich anyway.
Is it a problem that I look younger than my age? I could probably pass for 13/14.
A few decades of good sex with someone you love is always going to be better than 50 years of lame sex with someone you're indifferent to because you don't find them attractive :smile: bit of a silly argument.
Do you find it disturbing that you like men , who can be as old or older than your parents?
Original post by vader9280
Everyone who says to you that this is completely 'normal' and its your life and all that bull**** is stupid. Its obviously not your fault that you have this thing the same way paedophiles are not at fault for being attracted to little children. You like older men probably because of some childhood experiences (can be related to your dad, uncles, older teachers etc.). If you want to live with it, well its your choice, but be prepared to face a lot of problems later in life because of it. When you're tossed around by creepy old dudes watching too much Teen porn, you'll understand what I'm saying. So my suggestion is, go see a psychologist.


Really? A psychologist?
Original post by TSR Mustafa
Do you find it disturbing that you like men , who can be as old or older than your parents?


Not really. Don't really compare them to my parents.
Original post by vader9280
Everyone who says to you that this is completely 'normal' and its your life and all that bull**** is stupid. ... So my suggestion is, go see a psychologist.


LOL. Even if psychologists could change someone's sexual persuasion (hint: it didn't work with 'converting' gays), just because you personally think something is weird, doesn't mean other people have a mental disorder.

Oh btw, I have never been abused or had a 'childhood experience', yet I still find 40 yr olds sexier than 20 yr olds. Perhaps you'd be better off with the psychologist for all your misplaced rage. :smile:
Original post by Anonymous
A few decades of good sex with someone you love is always going to be better than 50 years of lame sex with someone you're indifferent to because you don't find them attractive :smile: bit of a silly argument.


What are you yapping on about?
Original post by vader9280
Yes. It's not a big deal to go to a psychologist, nothing to be embarrassed about.


I wouldn't be embarrassed. I can't imagine what they could do for me though. There isn't anything actually 'wrong' with me.
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ilem
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I take it you're 'too mature' for guys your age? :laugh:
Original post by Anonymous
Not really. Don't really compare them to my parents.



Yeah but you would enjoy having sexual relations with men who could pass for your father. if that doesn't creep you out at your age...
OP, you'll find that people are a lot nicer IRL when it's harder to troll. :smile:
#did not answer my Q

therefore quite clearly just a poser.

oops.
How old would you go?

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