According to the people on this forum, for a guy to just get an average girl..

Having an indian background is not bad at all, i loved educating this girl im seeing she is romanian and is ignorant. Brain of a pea, scared her with Hitler going after people and gave her the history of where her people are from. Some people just need educating.

I'm not going to argue with this. There is actually a lot of racism towards Asian men echoing the part in bold. Although generally I'm not attracted to Asian guys, there have been a few I've fancied and recently dated one...my friends were a bit like 'ooh he's Asian ' when I told them where he's from (India) but in actual fact he's very good looking.

That's an added element Asian guys have to contend with in particular.

The trouble with the OP, he is not even getting to first base.

There are steps.

1) Get number
2) Go on a date.
3) Kiss
4) Sleep with one another
5) Date.

Generally that's how it goes in the western society.

I suspect the OP struggles with step 1.

He said a lot of insulting things, I agree, but you gotta read between the lines here.

The guy is insecure, lonely and depressed. This thread was a cry for help from men and women on TSR.

Re your point about Eastern Europeans. Try having an Indian background in the USA and see how far you get lol, much more difficult there. Seen Indians (good looking and otherwise) do well in Europe/UK... but the **** they face in the USA is silly. The USA, imo, is a special exception. Most racist western country imo for ethnic men (apart from blacks) looking to date.

Problem is they act asian eat jalebi and drink milky chai. If i saw someone do that i would have a fight and end up in a police cell. People like that wonder why they can't attract tier 1 white girls by acting like the guru. If they want to act like Mr Khan from Citizen or East is East GL to them. They wonder why they are failing in life.

First of all, that isn't what the OP wants, he wants to have sex with lots of women. And the fact they don't want to makes THEM the ones with the problem, obviously.

Secondly, people still had affairs 50 years ago, especially men. And women were the ones who had to settle, particularly as the young male population had been decimated 10 years previously by WW2.

Thirdly, again, how on earth is shooting people going to make women want to have sex with men?

I literally had to laugh out loud to this.

Harsh but true. That **** is not appealing. The mistake is also going exclusively for British white girls...this attitude is most prevalent amongst them so they stand less of a chance. I'm black and my cousins are half Indian plus like I said I wouldn't rule out dating one either.

I'd like to think that he behaves differently in real life, an instance where he comes online to an internet forum to vent out his most major frustrations under the guise of relative anonymity yet in his day to day routine, he comes across as a normal person

Is what I'd like to believe.

It is not about looks in America. It is about race there. Even if you're good looking and ethnic you will get discriminated against. They are much more serious about their ideas of racial hierarchy.

Yeah see what you mean, im glad im mixed race,lol. I had someone think anything from fillipino,malaysian,indonesian, doesn't bother me. Depends they can't adapt to culture, they are still acting like the samosa king.

Blacks do well to be honest.

Can't see lebron James having trouble with women.

Yeah, I do feel sorry for guys who can't get girls, and vice versa (they do exist - if you go back to my posts from ~2004/5 you'll see just how angsty and whingey we can be too!) Some girls can be cruel, as can some guys.

But when it's hidden behind so much hatred and anger, and any girl who replies is insulted, people aren't going to be sympathetic. I could talk about my experiences, of my female friends not being slags and my male friends who aren't super hot getting girlfriends, but he would either not believe me or would find another way to insult me, probably by playing the race card.

On that note, FWIW, the hottest guy in my year at med school was mixed race - half-Iranian. He certainly didn't seem to do badly for himself with women.

Yeah imagine bringing a girl home to that. Thank god my parents are westernise, both have minimal things back to cultural roots. I have warned them quite abruptly if i see any of that
**** if i bring a tier 1 girl back there will be hell to pay, i will even set it on fire right infront of them. That goes for anything whether it be a mauritian newspaper or any form of culture.

Yeah, well, depression brings out the worse in people.

I am sure you studied some psychology as a medic. So as you would know, depressed people generally fall into a negative mindset - so even if you are trying to help them, they will take it as an attack if it contradicts their point of view.

The only person essentially that can help him snap out of it, is ironically the OP.



Mixed race people are generally really hot. I think the issue here for the OP is that if you are good looking no matter what race you are , you are desired - which is true IMO. The problem lies when you are average.

I'm not going to argue with this. There is actually a lot of racism towards Asian men echoing the part in bold. Although generally I'm not attracted to Asian guys, there have been a few I've fancied and recently dated one...my friends were a bit like 'ooh he's Asian ' when I told them where he's from (India) but in actual fact he's very good looking.

That's an added element Asian guys have to contend with in particular.

That's where having good mates as an average asian guy helps a lot.

Take the following scenario (I have been in this one so many times) -

You meet a girl at a house party, you like her, but you are not her type initially/or she is 50-50.

Now in a night club environment, what would typically happen, she will find a way to disqualify me quickly. Especially if I am not her type initially. It is even worse in the virtual world, Tinder etc.

I am a stranger - and the way she will look at it, why should I waste my time with you?

Now if you are popular, well liked in your social circle, say more so than her.

This can play in your favour.

Her friends can be instrumental in helping her from going 50/50 to giving you a shot to chat to her. It is up to you then to be charming enough to get her on dates etc.

I can understand why the OP is frustrated, because this is quite longwinded and pretty frustrating way of doing things, even though it works. Sometimes as a guy, you want things to be nice and simple, rather than having to break down barriers just to get a shot.

It's not a problem at all if you have other good traits (humour, confidence, sociable etc.) which are above average and work on the bits which can be changed like body, hair, clothes, scent.