Romantically straight but sexually bi...

I would disagree, I think there's something of a difference between being flexible, and being bisexual.

Bisexual implies a certain degree of comfortableness with both genders, whether one prefers men or women, or what proportion of preference exists for one over the other.

Flexibility has the implication of a strong, primary attraction to the opposite sex, but a certain degree of openness to having experiences and a bit of fun with the same gender.

I would disagree with your definition of Bisexual. Bisexual implies ONLY, as it is by definition, that an individual has sexual/physical attraction to both sexes and that is what you're describing. Whether or not you have more for one and not the other and comfortability varies from gender to gender is a personal... sort of... bonus or like a personal experience. But whatever, I don't really get how people can say they're uncomfortable in a relationship with a certain sex but fully comfortable having sexual intercourse or experimenting with them but that's me.

Whoopity ****in' do.

Just **** who you want to ****, stop over analysing it.

I think that underrates the true diversity of sexuality, and just how different bisexuality feels from flexibility.

I'm a gay guy, but I have had sexual relationships with women and I am attracted to some women. But I emphatically identify as being gay, there is no way that I feel like I am bisexual.

And equally, there are guys who identify as straight, who are only interested in women in a romantic sense. Emotional and romantic attraction is just as important as sexual attraction in sexual orientation. If someone is only attracted romantically and emotionally to one sex, I don't really think you can call them bisexual.

And I think it needlessly puts people in a label box to say, "I say you're bisexual, and that's what you have to be". From my perspective, it's perfectly legitimate for a guy to say he is heterosexual, to be exclusively attracted to women in a romantic and emotional sense, but to have some small level of attraction to guys in a sexual sense.

To say that there is only heterosexuality, homosexuality and bisexuality is awfully limited and misunderstanding of just how many "flavours" sexuality comes in

Then why bother to even comment? If it's no big deal to you, why post such a dismissive and arrogant comment?

Do you mean you've only recently started to accept you occasionally find guys attractive, and thinking you might enjoy having a bit of fun with an attractive, laid-back dude, but that you're still primarily attracted to girls?

There are many, many guys you could experiment with, they're all over the place if you know the right forum through which to get in touch. Lots of straight-ish guys who just want to have some no-strings experiences with another dude, nothing too heavy.

What got a bee under your bonnet love?

Oh that's just hilarious, after you said this

I could literally see the vein popping out of your forehead. What is it about guys tentatively fancying other guys that made you flip your lid?

Screw it. I can't hide it any more. I'm the OP & I'm the chap who's romantically straight but sexually bi.

Thank you all for your support.

I do feel ashamed about my fantasies. But I can't get rid of them so I may as well embrace them.

Having fun is the most important thing n my opinion.

Good! I'm glad you're happy with who you are there's nothing to be ashamed about.


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Normal is non-existent. Your normal is what you want to do or what you do, do.

As a gay man myself, I don't really understand how you can just have sex with a man and suddenly be heterosexual after it and before it but just switch at that moment but hey whatever floats your boat.

Oh please keep this hippy mumbo jumbo off this site.

Erm, no.

Thanks for the messages you've posted.

"Normal" is different for every person.

Similar to the OP, it's not really guys specifically I find attractive, more just what they pack haha. But in terms of the whole accepting thing, pretty much lol. And point me in that direction then haha.