Lonely and just too shy

Hi. i just always feel like im to shy to make news friends anybody got any help im quite lonely some friends but i always feel isolated at work im just too shy to talk

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Reply 1

Maid Marian

I feel your pain :sigh:

Reply 2

zippity.doodah

I used to be shyer than I am today - you just need to work on it, and make sure that becoming more confident is a long term goal that you're willing to stick to and to gradually keep on developing; as for myself at the moment, university (just an example) really caused me to obtain a "don't give a ****" attitude with regards to social situations - but of course, that's not always going to make you get more genuine friends (e.g. best friends) because from my experience that's all a matter of compatibility and your ability to laugh to them as much as they laugh to you

Reply 3

shawn_o1

Nah you'll find yourself getting used to it over time, my "best friends" are now my laptop and phone

Reply 4

RYAN1872

Original post by Maid Marian

I feel your pain :sigh:

its horrible :frown:

Reply 5

RYAN1872

Original post by shawn_o1

Nah you'll find yourself getting used to it over time, my "best friends" are now my laptop and phone

Want to pm me? :smile:

Reply 6

Alisa59

I'm lonely too! But that doesn't mean that I have to be depressed about it, including you. Just be patient. Finding good friends is hard and it takes a lot of time.
Being shy is a problem too. I'm also shy in real life. Try not to look down, head up straight in front with your shoulders straight. That will increase your confidence. Don't be scared when talking to them. Just say Hi and smile. :smile:

We can talk if you want to.

Reply 7

RYAN1872

Original post by Alisa59

We can talk if you want to.

Thanks for advise and yeh i would like to talk :smile:

Reply 8

Alisa59

Original post by RYAN1872

Thanks for advise and yeh i would like to talk :smile:

Awesome

Reply 9

kkboyk

Do things out of your comfort zone, like join a social or sports group and start from there. Eventually you'll gain some confidence :tongue:

Reply 10

RYAN1872

Original post by kkboyk

Do things out of your comfort zone, like join a social or sports group and start from there. Eventually you'll gain some confidence :tongue:

I Want to go to the gym but im scared im like really skinny and that

Reply 11

RYAN1872

Original post by Alisa59

Awesome

pm me?

Reply 12

O.Ozz

i'm shy and seen as the loner and thats why i feel like ending my life so i feel your pain. we just have to live

Reply 13

RYAN1872

Original post by O.Ozz

i'm shy and seen as the loner and thats why i feel like ending it so i feel your pain. we just have to live

Reply 14

kkboyk

Original post by RYAN1872

I Want to go to the gym but im scared im like really skinny and that

I get what you mean, I still don't go gym as I find people there intimidating unless my friends go with me which is a rare event itself. No-one will honestly care, they all started skinny as well.

You thought of nay other event?

Reply 15

RYAN1872

Original post by kkboyk

i live in scotland so not alot is on lol haha some of my friends dont like sports and i that i just feel quite shy if i went to gym as i would be alone

Reply 16

kkboyk

Original post by RYAN1872

i live in scotland so not alot is on lol haha some of my friends dont like sports and i that i just feel quite shy if i went to gym as i would be alone