I survived uni without alcohol, smoking, drugs, sex, clubbing, girls; Ask Me Anything

I'm a Keynesian.

clubbing may be everything that the urban dictionary suggests but do you not feel that forcing yourself into scenarios that you are un-comfortable/not used to is good practise?

As I explained above, most of these things, I just find absolutely absurd and nonsense.

* Clubbing: I find it completely stupid. Check the definition of clubbing on Urban dictionary. That's my view on it.
* Drinking, drugs, cigarettes: Don't see a single benefit of any of these, which are purely harming. Why go through that ****? Get hammered and then spend the next day in a hangover and feeling absolutely horrendous...
* Female friends: That wasn't much because of choice, I just didn't get along with any girls, mainly because I was studying a course that was 90+ % guys (Civil Engineering).
* Sex: Since I didn't get to know any girls well enough, I didn't wanna get into that as I'm not losing my virginity to someone who I'll regret for the rest of my life. It's kept for someone special.

I'm not forcing myself in any scenarios that I'm uncomfortable with.

In the future you might not have the choice- I don't particularly like going out but I still do it as much as possible to stay social ect...?

Why wouldn't I have the choice in the future?

Not everything that happen to you is within your control, and you may get into a position at some point where being more extroverted could be advantageous. ?

I don't think that going clubbing is the only way of being extrovert.

No but the list you used suggests to me that you are quite introverted?

Have you ever been heartbroken/ in love?

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There are a large number of practising Muslims living in the West. Most of them wouldn't go clubbing and all of them would never drink. I doubt all of them are introverted.

Oh okay- so its your religious beliefs that have resulted in this?

No it's not. I've gone against a few things my religion tells me, but others are pure coincidences. Now, smoking or even shisha isn't against Islam at all. I personally decide not to do that. My point is that there are a large number of people that after uni stop clubbing and drinking-wise, the vast majority of Muslims wouldn't drink. Just as an example of a group of people.

I'm Muslim, but that's got nothing to do with that. I've done things that one isn't supposed to do as a Muslim, so if I wanted to, I would've done these as well.

Of course I'm gonna get married one day and will have sex... and I did have female friends before uni, just not at uni. But any of the others, I don't have any interest in those at all. Don't even wanna try them as I don't see a single benefit of those. Clubbing is the most stupid thing ever invented. The urban dictionary definition really sums it up for me. Smoking, Drugss, and Alcohol, I just don't see ANY point whatsoever in those.

As the title says, I (Male) went to uni,
* Never touched alcohol
* Never touched a cigarette / shisha
* Didn't do any drugs
* Never had sex
* Never went clubbing
* Didn't have a single female friend

Ask me anything


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