Boy trouble ahhh!

Okay, so I started a new college recently. One of my new friends introduced me to this boy and we all had a conversation about our subjects, past schools etc. I found this guy really attractive so I added him on facebook. He started a conversation with me and we spoke for about two hours and I think it was flirty (I have no experience lol) as there was lots of winky faces and kisses. I feel attached to him despite only having one conversation. I've been told he's a player though and I think there might be something flirty between him and a girl in one of my classes. I genuinely don't know what to do. Considering how attached I feel after one conversation, I dread to think how much I would like him after speaking for quite a while. But I DON'T want to be played or even friend zoned. Should I just call it quits?

Kk I can understand.

Are you desperate?

Okay, so I started a new college recently. One of my new friends introduced me to this boy and we all had a conversation about our subjects, past schools etc. I found this guy really attractive so I added him on facebook. He started a conversation with me and we spoke for about two hours and I think it was flirty (I have no experience lol) as there was lots of winky faces and kisses. I feel attached to him despite only having one conversation. I've been told he's a player though and I think there might be something flirty between him and a girl in one of my classes. I genuinely don't know what to do. Considering how attached I feel after one conversation, I dread to think how much I would like him after speaking for quite a while. But I DON'T want to be played or even friend zoned. Should I just call it quits?

Okay, it's been like two days and it flopped. The girl I mentioned who I'm friends with, she seems really interested in him and it sounds like he's interested in her back. She knows I talk to him now (didn't say in a flirty way), so I'd feel really harsh if I carried on flirting with him. I can take a risk or play it safe. I know one day I'm going to randomly talk to her and she will be like 'he asked me out!!!'. I also found out he split up with his girlfriend not long ago so I suppose he's milking it for all it's worth aka flirting loads with a lot of different people. Is it time to give up?

Yep its time to give up! At least you have a reason to hate him now. He kinda just wants attention.

why would you add someone just because you found them attractive? do you not care about personality?

Actually never thought about it in that way, that he probably just wants attention. I don't want to block him on facebook, so how should I respond to his replies?

Trust me I know its hard but he ain't right for you. #UserAlert#
Don't be blinded by his slink love!

But inside I still desperately want him to like me

Yep its time to give up! At least you have a reason to hate him now. He kinda just wants attention.

Okay, it's been like two days and it flopped.

Why did you completely ignore my post? Send him what I told you or something along those lines. If you don't act now then you will feel even worse for not taking any action.

there is no reason to hate him. lmao. what's he done? have conversations with people?

Girls like you are extremely annoying. So many of them were like that at my 6th form. I literally mind my own business and girls just randomly start hating me for no reason and make all sorts of assumptions and judgements.

Well girls talk and I guess what she said about him is correct.

So - he is very practised at attracting girls - he's had plenty of practice - the chances are if you continue to see, talk to him he'll use his slick charm to entice you into a relationship. He may well be a psychopath ie someone who will use you and leave you without a backward glance.

It only works with girls who believe that he'll be different with them. You're reacting to his charm: all confidence tricksters have to have charm, don't they?

I predict : you'll continue to see him, he'll be fine, get you into bed but perhaps cancel a meeting or two. (Something or someone better will have cropped up.)

You will cry : he'll say ' everything is fine', you agree, he cancels again , you see him with someone else and have hysterics. He leaves you alone for a while because you're getting difficult and he wants an easy life.

You're desperate: he comes back , you take him back and you fall pregnant; he vanishes into thin air.......calling out 'I told you I didn't want anything serious.....

I don't hate him

Okay, so I started a new college recently. One of my new friends introduced me to this boy and we all had a conversation about our subjects, past schools etc. I found this guy really attractive so I added him on facebook. He started a conversation with me and we spoke for about two hours and I think it was flirty (I have no experience lol) as there was lots of winky faces and kisses. I feel attached to him despite only having one conversation. I've been told he's a player though and I think there might be something flirty between him and a girl in one of my classes. I genuinely don't know what to do. Considering how attached I feel after one conversation, I dread to think how much I would like him after speaking for quite a while. But I DON'T want to be played or even friend zoned. Should I just call it quits?