Guys , would you marry a girl who's had sex with over 20 guys?

...but most women don't take two guys a year in during the span of ten years.

Not a guy but just saying, I'd marry a guy who'd done the same so long as he didn't cheat during the relationship therefore I don't see why the attitude shouldn't be the same the other way round.

If she was late 20s I'd probably think there was something a bit strange if she hadn't.

TBF, if she had over 20 dicks by the time she's in her late 20's, it just goes to show she's obviously not very good at maintaining relationships! Each bf/fling she has got to last only a year max.

And would she move one with you? Probably if she's moved on for over 20 before

Do you have self-esteem issues? Why do you think she would move on from you?

It's got nothing with self esteem.
If you think of it logically - if she can't stay with over 20 guys for more than a year, what makes you think you will be the one?

Maybe it's you who is overestimating your ability to flatter someone like that.

Jeeze, no. I mean I don't mind maybe 3-4, providing they were relationships, but 20!? That's a lot of dick I really don't want to think about. That ain't the sort of carefree personality I'm looking for.

OK I will try but I don't want ons or any sexual partners
I only want a girlfriend rn

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I don't think it happens like that necessarily, but I fully believe that many women have slept with more than two guys in a year. There's been 1-2 years where I've only slept with one person, but there's also been a year where I've slept with significantly more than one.

since when is a relationship carefree...
I mean live and let live sure..its your choice
Just personally I wouldn't be overly bothered about it.
Tbh amount of bfs would more put me off....I know some girls have the same problem time and time again with lads..and just bounce from bf to bf instead of sorting the issue out...sex though..its much less clear cut.

Uh, relationships aren't carefree? I think you misread what I wrote.

Also agreed about the number of boyfriends part. I prefer somebody with self-restraint in general. I find people who generally just avoid jumping from person to person are much more reliable because they put their faith in you for the long-term.

I like to think about and solidify my future, and somebody who just hops around for sex or relationships... generally doesn't have much of a plan.

but having 20 sexual partners is different to 20 bf's with ONS quite common these days..

20 really isn't overly much..fair enough if its a dealbreaker for you but i'd wonder how strict you are on other criteria.

Criteria such as..?

Looks.

Personality.
Ambitions.

Interests.

Ethnicity.

Not particularly picky. I'm no looker myself.



Prefer somebody aspirational, don't care what about. Somebody naturally maternal would be a plus but I've not exactly been known to pick out that sort of woman.



Not bothered. Preferably at least something in common. Sciences, engineering, humanities, whatever; just not something like "women's studies" or "feminism".



Caucasian, Eastern, Latin, dunno.

Hope that answered your questions. I think it's perfectly reasonable to not want somebody who puts such little emphasis on sharing personal space on basic terms, like "(s)he was hot so we banged".

lol no. I am only going off personal experience here. A lot of guys act like complete bellends when it comes to relationships, I don't. Hence in over 10 years of dating, no-one has ever broken up with me.

yeh exactly 20 isn't much.I knew a guy who's dating a women who's been with roughly 500 men...that's men you might begin to worry!
but 20 I mean..thats as close you get to a virgin these days with women by 30!