Do you find it a turn off if someone is one of those people who is always flirty to everyone (esp. the gender they're interested in, if they're not bi)? For example, one of those girls who's always drunkenly sitting on the lap of a guy friend at a party, or one of those guys who's always overly nice to girls (even those with boyfriends?)
Thoughts? I do. How do you spot if they are doing it on purpose or just naturally a bit OTT?
Do you find it a turn off if someone is one of those people who is always flirty to everyone (esp. the gender they're interested in, if they're not bi)? For example, one of those girls who's always drunkenly sitting on the lap of a guy friend at a party, or one of those guys who's always overly nice to girls (even those with boyfriends?)
Yes, I find it a turn off and I find it really annoying.
I am always cautious of guys who happen to overly flirtatious to be honest.
Yes, I find it a turn off and I find it really annoying.
I am always cautious of guys who happen to overly flirtatious to be honest.
I know, even if the guy in question doesn't sleep around and just flirts "for the fun of it" it makes him seem quite cheap Why are you cautious, for the same reason?
To be honest I often find that people who flirt too much are just doing it on purpose.
Yeah that's true. I can't see why you'd want to. I am very friendly, but there is no reason to cross the line IMO unless you actually want to date someone
I know, even if the guy in question doesn't sleep around and just flirts "for the fun of it" it makes him seem quite cheap Why are you cautious, for the same reason?
Yes, for the same reason.
I just think that it makes the person seem desperate and an attention-seeker of the highest order.
I just think that it makes the person seem desperate and an attention-seeker of the highest order.
Out of curiosity where would you draw "the line"?
There's this guy I have my eye on right now, and I don't think he sleeps around. He's single, but he does stuff like go out for dinner with his exes from about 5 years ago, and continually comment on his female colleagues/friends' FB statuses etc. like "how are you bby xx" or "Great work last night, hun xxx" and it shows up on my wall all the time. Massive, massive flirt though I know him well enough to say that he is not sleeping with them.
I find it annoying already and I'm not even with him... should I just forget about him?