Do men have a need for control?

For instants, imposing themselves in a situation that has nothing to do with them, yet feel entitled to tell someone what to do. I am going to say something; An example of this is my brother always keeping a eye out on who goes in my kitchen (a little insight into my life there)

Or

I know this person who will takes seconds and leaves nothing for anyone else, considering they didn't make or buy the ingredients (yes food related again)

Women know how to be in control, I think men just want control, simply because you're men.

Erm no? There are different reasons for men wanting control and such. Some women don't know how to be in control due to different circumstances and so you can't just assume that just because men want control does not simply mean they are men. Don't use gender as an explanation for some men's desire for having control; it's like me saying to a transgender "oh you can't be a woman because you're a man and therefore you are too manly to be a woman". I can't choose a person's gender just like how you can't speak for the majority of men.

I don't think men are as rational as I used to think they were. Most men I know go on feeling only and can be very childish.

Don't you think this is a very sexist sweeping statement?

I would like to challenge the rather Orwellian statement 'women know how to control men'...

No, your argument makes no sense. You haven't explained why he watches the kitchen in the first place, or why this should particularly upset you, the second example there has been no explanation of the conflict between you and this overeating with seconds fella and his attempt to justify it..that you should think this is his feeble attempt to control you is rather self absorbed of you if not outright paranoid.

Mostly your argument is still predicated upon this really horrific and misandrist idea that men try and fail to control women (indeed control ANYTHING-you explicitly state 'when they [men] have none')
while women have men wrapped around their fingers-'women know how to be in control'-is this correct? And if yes you are digging yourself a.mighty hole.

Hmmmmm......
Interesting

Or perhaps it's that most people think they're right and are unwilling to back down from their viewpoints?

What the ****. No it is still controlling if either sex does it. Are you saying it is in women's nature, some natural prerogative, to tell.men what to wear? Lol

It's for instance, not for instants.

The patterns follows as so: I dislike whatever they are doing, which turns into a little spat; concluding with both sides still disagreeing or them regressing to some child like attitude.

My question is, I'm I just smarter than these guys or it's an innate natural desire for control (if so should I just back off and let them have control), because it only happens with guys.


You have very flawed explanations and I think you should go and sit in that corner and think about what you have said. Honestly, this why many people get misinformed about women and men. You can't just decide that you're smarter than these men just because they act different to you. People have different defence mechanisms and besides, you should not be the one deciding that men are control freaks and women can't possibly be irrational.

I'll go change it right away sir...god so controlling

I think I'm on to something, and you just want to disagree.

You sound like a pain in the arse.

Yep, it actually turns me on to chastise people on the internet over their spelling.

If someone tells me or anyone else what to do when they have no right or feels they are entitled when they are not, I will tell them what I think.

Sounds like you were telling them to stop what they were doing because you didn't like it. That's controlling in my book

If someone is banging their heads against the wall, aren't you going to tell them to stop, or is that too controlling.

Does this apply for all dudes?


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Trying to work that out.

In short no it doesn't it's just the media scheme to brainwash our youth into hating groups of peopl


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