So the right one is slowly getting better but I'm having to express like crazy to take off enough - it's so tiring! Still got a good way to go to get it fully healed and then got to switch to the other one...
We're sleeping a bit better because for the moment we're settling for cosleeping. We've arranged my side of the bed so there's a space for him, with no pillows or duvet and the cot pushed up against it so he can't roll out. Much better for everyone and I just nurse him to sleep on my side.