After the morning after

Girls, you think too much into things!

So. true. I was briefly seeing another guy but mentioned to a friend we didn't have that much in common, and so I was curious as to why he still seemed keen. She replied that he wouldn't even have thought about how much we had to chat about, which struck me as somewhat patrionising, but it does just show how much girls analyse things compared to our male counterparts!

Girls, you think too much into things!

lol i'm a guy but ye

Absolutely. Especially when it comes down to sex.

I want sex - do you want sex? great, (awesome) sex it is. And that's really it.

Wow, even further down the line (i.e. a few dates in, when some sex has been had)? Men are from Mars...

A few dates in is still a very, very early potential relationship :-P

Been on several dates with someone, and he cooked me dinner last night and we had breakfast together at his place this morning, but he didn't initiate any morning sex, although he did gently kiss me. He said he'd had fun, mentioned a 'next time' and asked what I was doing next week. I feel he wanted me to leave (i.e. lack of morning sex) but can't be sure. Did I outstay my welcome & should I wait for him to text me, or should I be the one to ask him out again? I mentioned I'm going to a party this weekend and am now wondering whether I should ask him to that... This dating lark confuses me!

These things should be frantic and spontaneous.

Ye you most likely was, the dating game is hard haha all these unwritten rules. Remember he may not text back straight away to make you think he is busy.
Good luck! Let us know how it goes

People who play games end up confusing each other and themselves and then wake up 10 years later married to someone they didn't really like because the person they did really like didn't think they were interested because they didn't text back for 24 hours because of some stupid ****ing "rule".

Is this, er, from experience? :O

The only unwritten rule is to ignore all the stupid unwritten rules.

Always text immediately, never play games. If you're enthusiastic, show it.



People who play games end up confusing each other.

No

Most people are smart enough to ignore the so-called "dating rules" anyway.

I agree with this, only problem I find when I show enthusiasm it can scare her off as she's used to the single life "game rules". For example if you text back immediately you look desperate.
I think its wrong too to play all these games to try win someone over but sometimes it's the only way.

If you like someone why not text back? I do

I agree with this, only problem I find when I show enthusiasm it can scare her off as she's used to the single life "game rules". For example if you text back immediately you look desperate.
I think its wrong too to play all these games to try win someone over but sometimes it's the only way.

Lol I do but it's the certain amount time you have to wait before doing so, surely i'm not the only one to have heard this? I'm not saying its right or that agree with it either...

If she is that stupid that she actually believes that, you're better off scaring her off anyway.

I once got back from a night out to find an email waiting for me from a girl I had met about 3 hours earlier.

Did I think she was desperate? Of course not. I thought she was enthusiastic. We went out the next evening. Why wait?

Oh yeah, I've heard of it. I just don't give a damn!

Lol I do but it's the certain amount time you have to wait before doing so, surely i'm not the only one to have heard this? I'm not saying its right or that agree with it either...