experienced an approach at the bus stop

My first ever experience at a guy approaching a girl was witnessed at the bus stop a few weeks ago. Would have written this post then but was busy with work.

Honestly it was so much cringe. I felt sorry for the lad, he didn't do anything wrong he was trying to make normal conversation with the girl , nothing awkward, but what made it awkward was her total non interest in him. This was an Indian guy approaching an Indian girl and the guy even looked above average.

Then it hit me, all my theories unravelling right in front of my eyes, all my theories being proved right in front of me. All of them. Guaranteed if this guy was white the girl would have given him his number ASAP, guaranteed if the guy was an 8 or above /10 the girl would have given him her number.

They were both in the same looks league and he wasn't awkward.

Proves how much of a fraud confidence , personality and approaching girls is.

Lol I will never debase myself to approach and girl and let her get an ego boost out of it NEVER. I'd rather have my balls chopped off than to approach a girl anywhere whether it be on the street, at a club or a bar.

Now the girl at the bus stop probably has an ego the size of the solar system due to perfectly fine looking guys approaching her everywhere and she thinks she's a 10/10 model who deserves nothing short of Brad Pitt.

It seems I am the lone crusader against this fight against the inequality men face, I am a martyr who will be remembered and cheered in the future by men for sacrificing myself for the betterment of future men.

That was almost humble, so well done. I see you're a law student so that can't have been easy

So you're a cutey with a superiority complex whom has her bitch face on, partly because she's not her right self right now, and thinks it's acceptable not just to ridicule a (ethnic minority) beta male, but to make an implicit slight about (TSRian?) males more generally?

I know some of these threads are fairly insufferable but there are more amusing/gracious ways to take the mick, and more constructive things one may (ideally) say in doing so. Attitudes like that are part of the reason such guys wind up bitter and misogynistic. Maybe think before you speak next time

No, just to ridicule someone with a stupid opinion.

I simply pointed out him being male. Which he undeniably is.
I didn't even generalise for once :O Which I often do, and have often justified my reasons for doing so too.

All I can hear is 'blab blab unhappy/unsatisfied male'

If you often do it; it's time someone told you to stop doing it. Clearly, 'blab blab unhappy/unsatisfied male' this is implying that men are only after sex. Next time you should think before you post, you didn't just point out him being a male.

Clearly you like assuming things because I didn't imply anything

Typical male
Now that is an assumption.

Please explain what you meant by 'unsatisfied' male. Your superiority complex is growing threw the roof. You need to stop allowing yourself to be indoctrinated by stereotypes not just of males. To be honest, I doubt you realise that you are pre-judging which should tell you something.

Nah, I was commenting on his obtuse insistence that the girl in the OP must have some kind of superiority complex and is somehow obliged to talk to him. Judging by the 10 likes and many other posters commenting in the same fashion I'd say that it's the widely accepted opinion on this thread. All it comes down to tbh.
Along with a 'playful' poke as to why I reckon he's commenting in that light


I genuinely have no clue where you nutters are getting me 'stereotyping' from unless you're assuming ridiculous things -

Also the 'unsatisfied' in particular came from his comment 'I would get a GF but cba' is all.

1) Your just stating random opinion; perhaps you are the nutter?
2) It's not random u clearly were pre-judging and we complained about it.

So what you take her number so you can go shoe shopping together? Come on.

All I can hear is 'blab blab unhappy/unsatisfied male'

Lol I will never debase myself to approach and girl and let her get an ego boost out of it NEVER. I'd rather have my balls chopped off than to approach a girl anywhere whether it be on the street, at a club or a bar.

It was superfluous and undeniably ran the risk of appearing pointed (whether you were/are conscious of this or not)

Is there something particularly distasteful to you about an "unhappy/unsatisfied male", as opposed to an 'unhappy/unsatisfied female'* (many of whom also post here, with often similarly pathetic threads)?

Lool just say i dont kno what to say in reply than saying "All I can hear is 'blab blab unhappy/unsatisfied male"...

Then use of 'male' is surely superfluous, and hence achieves/communicates nothing much besides making you look a bit of a conceited bitch

Listen, I wasn't writing you off as a person, and I'm sure you're capable on contributing constructively, t'was just a word to the wise. Now be a good girl and take your medicine

You'll need to brush up on your English comprehension if you want to become a fine lawyer my friend..


Don't use Sheen tags, you're female; tiger blood is reserved for us red blooded males

Also might wanna avoid winking at this incorrigible old swine, you'll only encourage him..

There's a good girl

Believe me sweetie I know all about your teeny-manipulation and self aggrandisation tactics. I'm not impressed. There are far better (more effective/ethical, never mind sophisticated) ways to give off that vibe than this put people down to build yourself up nonsense

I can't I wanted to use the cute blah blah emoticon! (Genuine reason for usign the words blab blab) :P

I'm not interested in your particular, selfish/brattish "needs", I'm interested in encouraging other users of this forum to be their best selves

You must be new here

Come on, you're a law student, it's more rote learning than studying* as such

You may not realise/accept/admit to it, but I can assure you, they exist and you are (at least partially) having them satisfied here

Good to know

Then it hit me, all my theories unravelling right in front of my eyes, all my theories being proved right in front of me. All of them. Guaranteed if this guy was white the girl would have given him his number ASAP, guaranteed if the guy was an 8 or above /10 the girl would have given him her number.