Obviously I haven't cut her off mentally otherwise I wouldn't be posting this on MISC lol. That's pretty much my problem really, I can't stop thinking about it at times, it's just in my subconscious or habit. I know with time it'll go away hopefully it's just making me sick for the time being
Put the attentions to another girl, your work and your hobbies, simple as that.
Work helps only a tad bit. I'm not really meeting new people though so probably won't meet too many new girls until I go to uni next year, which by then everything should be sorted lol. It's just about getting through this year really.
Obviously I haven't cut her off mentally otherwise I wouldn't be posting this on MISC lol. That's pretty much my problem really, I can't stop thinking about it at times, it's just in my subconscious or habit. I know with time it'll go away hopefully it's just making me sick for the time being
It's a habit, so you need to break out of it, it's hard but think of the long term goal.
When you feel bad about it, what makes you feel better?
Work helps only a tad bit. I'm not really meeting new people though so probably won't meet too many new girls until I go to uni next year, which by then everything should be sorted lol. It's just about getting through this year really.
I guess so, but then there are other hobbies you can do that doesn't involve girls and can take off your time, talk to a mate, play some football etc you have to occupy your time.
Thing is I've already done everything to move on but it still doesn't stop. I comprehend that she's not thinking about me and I wish I didn't either tbh. I agree with both of you though that it was mostly routine for the past 2 years so it's probably going to take a bit longer than a few months. I'm honestly sick of it right now though but it probably has to do with the fact that the final few months of it were horrible I guess?
In a few months time you'll probably kick yourself for wasting so much time thinking about her. If the final few months were horrible then that's even more of a reason to forget her quicker. Just look at how horrible it was and think "why should I think about someone that I was unhappy with for the final few months?". You've just got to get yourself into a whole new routine with things and the time that you would have spent with her you should find something else to do.
In a few months time you'll probably kick yourself for wasting so much time thinking about her. If the final few months were horrible then that's even more of a reason to forget her quicker. Just look at how horrible it was and think "why should I think about someone that I was unhappy with for the final few months?". You've just got to get yourself into a whole new routine with things and the time that you would have spent with her you should find something else to do.
Yeah if I spent more time sorting out my problems than other people's I'd be doing much better atm.
Latest Gotham episode is the best of the season so far.
Sort of nailed the cross between Nolan's Batman and Burton's campy Batman.
Didn't start watching Gotham until a few weeks back - it's wayyyyyy better than I expected.
In particular I think the penguin character is portrayed absolutely perfectly. Although Alfred is more like a bodyguard than a butler which threw me a little...
Working for a recruitment agency but as a resourcer/admin staff. Was tough man but mainly because I went to bed around 2am and work started from 8am. My body clock will defo sort itself out since I'm nackered.
Working for a recruitment agency but as a resourcer/admin staff. Was tough man but mainly because I went to bed around 2am and work started from 8am. My body clock will defo sort itself out since I'm nackered.
Ah, well done on getting the job. Your body clock sounds just as messed up as mine! South American football has messed mine up though and will continue to mess it up tonight. Atlético Mineiro play in the cup at midnight and I've got to get up at 6:30am.
Ah, well done on getting the job. Your body clock sounds just as messed up as mine! South American football has messed mine up though and will continue to mess it up tonight. Atlético Mineiro play in the cup at midnight and I've got to get up at 6:30am.
Thanks.
It's a 1 week trial period, but if they're interested they'll take me on for a longer term role. Fingers crossed hopefully.