Girls: Do you let your bf cum inside you?

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Original post by carabethh

Also on the pill, have done so but avoid it in any common frequency. The pill is 99.9% effective if taken in the theoretically perfect way, however I do not trust myself to be 100% consistent in line with the risk (however small) that poses; I'm far too forgetful for my own good.

yeah pretty similar to me. I feel like even though I'm really good at taking my pill, I still can't help being worried about it!

Original post by Spock's Socks

Yes. I use the mini pill Cerazette. I have been on a few pills in my time but this one seems to be the best for me.

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Original post by hotliketea

yeah and have done so for four years

i'm only on the pill , no issues yet touch wood :smile:

Original post by abbiemac

I'm on the injection because I don't trust myself with the pill- missing days etc, I'm awful

Ah ok, thanks for your responses girls! So it sounds like the contraception you've all used has been effective :smile:

definitely going to start trusting mine more now haha. Just you know when you don't physically prevent something, it's difficult not to worry about it!

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There is more reasons to use condoms than pregnancy.
Whats his sexual history? If he's had previous partners, especially if they had unprotected sex I would insist upon a full STD screening.

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uberteknik

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Original post by Jebedee

So if someone cums inside you 1000x you are statistically bound to get pregnant?

No.

The statistic means that out of 1000 people using that form of contraception, 1 pregnancy is probable.

Like throwing a dice with 50% probability of landing heads or tails, heads may land 10 times in a row for one person whilst a tail may land first throw for another.

Same with the pill - an unlucky person may get pregnant first time (unlikely but still possible) whilst another may find it 100% reliable for the whole time they used it.

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Original post by Ovid14

There is more reasons to use condoms than pregnancy.
Whats his sexual history? If he's had previous partners, especially if they had unprotected sex I would insist upon a full STD screening.

lol I'm well aware of that. We've both been tested and are clean, so my issue is with pregnancy.

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Stickman

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Yes. I let my gf cum inside me.

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Original post by amylouisenic

lol I'm well aware of that. We've both been tested and are clean, so my issue is with pregnancy.

That's great you are both clean now.
In regards to pregnancy there are many methods but not all will work well with your body sometimes you need to change over to something new. While you find out what works best then I would suggest continuing to use condoms until your confident in your contraception.
If you have been on the pill a while and all is fine there shouldn't be a problem.

Another concern, and I know many refuse to think of it believing their BF would never ever do it but clearly a lot do, is what if he cheats?
A lot of girls pick up an STD from a cheating BF.

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Jebedee

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Original post by uberteknik

No.

The statistic means that out of 1000 people using that form of contraception, 1 pregnancy is probable.

Like throwing a dice with 50% probability of landing heads or tails, heads may land 10 times in a row for one person whilst a tail may land first throw for another.

Same with the pill - an unlucky person may get pregnant first time (unlikely but still possible) whilst another may find it 100% reliable for the whole time they used it.

I guess that means it's similar to the condom then, in that the 1% that fails is mainly because of the idiots who put it on backwards and end up breaking it. Like the girls who forget to take it then blame the pill.

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Original post by Casiolynn

When you're each other's first a screening is just unnecessary.

And don't start suggesting he's lying :wink:

That really would depend on your medical history for some a check would also be worth it.
Just because you may have been each others firsts doesn't mean everyone else reading this thread were virgins when they began a sexual relationship.

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Original post by Ovid14

That's great you are both clean now.
In regards to pregnancy there are many methods but not all will work well with your body sometimes you need to change over to something new. While you find out what works best then I would suggest continuing to use condoms until your confident in your contraception.
If you have been on the pill a while and all is fine there shouldn't be a problem.

Another concern, and I know many refuse to think of it believing their BF would never ever do it but clearly a lot do, is what if he cheats?
A lot of girls pick up an STD from a cheating BF.

Lol, neither of us have ever been 'not clean'. I've been on the pill for 3 years and have never had an issue with it. I just worry about pregnancy and always have, despite never having a pregnancy scare. I was just wondering how confident other women are in their choice of contraception.

I trust my bf, and have no reason not to. So that's a non-issue here.

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Original post by Casiolynn

When you're each other's first a screening is just unnecessary.

And don't start suggesting he's lying :wink:

thanks for supporting me here :wink:

but we are neither of each other's first. I'm 22, and he's 29. I'm just a paranoid cow. lol.

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Original post by amylouisenic

Lol, neither of us have ever been 'not clean'. I've been on the pill for 3 years and have never had an issue with it. I just worry about pregnancy and always have, despite never having a pregnancy scare. I was just wondering how confident other women are in their choice of contraception.

I trust my bf, and have no reason not to. So that's a non-issue here.

Thats fair enough. If I were you I would find out when you ovulate, for most its day 14 of your cycle but not for everyone, and use comdoms around that time. That would greatly decrease your chances of pregnancy.

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