People coming onto you when they're in a relationship

per say

Isn't it per se?

Also how do you know the number is his Gf's?

started sending me numerous unsolicited dick pictures

omg I hate that kind of people too !! The worst is when they tell you that they have a gf and it's fine for you because you just want to be friends, but they don't, and they act all flirty and you have to remind them " you have a gf" and they're embarassed so they're like " so what, I wasn't flirting with you or anything" yeah right "_".

And because she told me it was her in the end? If it wasn't her number I wouldn't have said it was

The thing is with him, though, is that he flirted with me so openly and I was always reminding him he had a girlfriend and asking him how she was and how they were doing to make sure he knew I wasn't looking for anything more than friendship with him, but he always pushed her to one side and said that it didn't matter. At one point he actually said "I wish she was more like you" and I was like oh Godddd, you're so sad for doing this when I don't even like you anymore. What even are guys I don't understand.

You never mentioned this.

Anyways, if she texted you saying, XYZ likes you etc then she knows what her bf is up to.

Honestly, if this guy is such a ****, why keep making contact? It's kinda frustrating when girls talk like this, you see what he's like, complain, then start texting him again, then complain again, then start snap chatting again... Just delete him off everything and forget about it.

haha he seems pretty dumb ! And, it doesn't have anything to do with your question, but just saying, when guys act like that, people say that they're just being guys, but when it's girls, people say they're desperate or slutty "_"

This happened to me recently at work. The guy works in my department and his gf in a different department. He knew I knew he had a GF and he knows I have a BF. I'll never understand how anyone can disregard relationships like that.

My BF and I found it pretty funny and his face was a picture when he was watching me talking to his GF at work, he was clearly panic stricken I'd tell her what he'd been up to.

she must either be really stupid or really love him.

Because he was my friend? I have a lot of friends that I think are dicks, in fact, most of my friends are dicks in moderation. I just didn't know to what extent of a dick he actually was. Most of the time I talk to him it's in a completely platonic way, and I actually do like him as a person when he can talk normally with me without practically shoving his own dick in my face. All I wanted to tell him the other day was that I failed my test, I don't think that's a bad thing, nor something to be sexualized, do you? ****ing hell.

I don't care if my friends are dicks either, but isn't this thread complaining about him being a dick? Don't buy a scorpion and complain if it stings.

He sent you pictures of his cock, then had a go at you for not reciprocating. You should have worked out from that what sort of person he is. I'm not saying it isn't his fault, he's being an idiot, I'm only blaming you for deliberately causing drama in your life, then complaining about it.

Ah yes, because telling someone I failed my driving test equates to me deliberately causing drama in my life. How the hell was I to know that he was going to do what he did? I expected to literally tell him that, him ask me how I failed, me to ell him and him to say "better look next time" and that would be the end of it. That was literally all that was said up until he started becoming sexual with me.

You're right, half of it was my fault for talking to him, but that's about it. I obviously wasn't trying to cause drama, I didn't want him to do that because it creeps me out. There are some times when he's like that and some times when he's not, and I was hoping he'd be the latter now that he has a GIRLFRIEND. So sorry for trying to talk to somebody who has a girlfriend and trusting they wouldn't pull any moves on me again because of this.