I ruined Christmas and my family (hopefully temporary)

Tom Hiddleson I agree men come and go but (most of the time) family will always be there

Another thing OP let the family digest what they've heard don't continue to apologise again and again
Give your sister space and time.



I haven't watched it in time too I only watch Christmas episodes now. Lucy killer still not revealed I was told it would be in February. My money is on Lauren

That's Loki
You're thinking of Chris Hemsworth

What did your sister say?

What happened, I'm so interested now. Lemme guess:
You had sex with your sister's husband, and now they all know and she hates you.
Sorry if my post seems insensitive but you're the one who's playing games by not telling us what happened.
Anyways if I'm correct, then you gotta let go of your sister for a while, two-three years.

Something happened that made you tell them? What was that? I have no advice, if I was you I'd probably disappear in shame for a couple years and that's not very constructive. I could never ever break my sister's family even if her boyfriend was that hot thing who plays Thor. Total mindblank what his name is though.

I don't have any sympathy for you.

You can't make things better, what is done, is done.

If you are honest and remorseful, your family will hopefully forgive you over time.

Another thing OP let the family digest what they've heard don't continue to apologise again and again
Give your sister space and time.



I haven't watched it in time too I only watch Christmas episodes now. Lucy killer still not revealed I was told it would be in February. My money is on Lauren

He tried it on with me again yesterday: CHRISTMAS DAY! At first in the kitchen he slapped my bum and winked I was about to say something but then a member of my family walked in.
Also when I had gone to the bathroom, he was there when I came out and started saying things like you're the most beautiful thing i've ever seen etc... and then he kissed me and put his hand up my dress... and said he can't stop thinking about me etc. Whether I enjoyed that or not I knew it was wrong so I stopped him and decided to tell my family before he tried another time.
I had regretted the incident every minute since it had happened that night when everyone had gone out, yet he felt no remorse at all, this is what made me have to tell them then.

And you mean Chris Hemsworth...

How did he react when you told everyone? Did he try to deny it?

He was smiling/laughing and said it was a joke and he was playing around and that I was making it to be something bigger than it actually was...

He was smiling/laughing and said it was a joke and he was playing around and that I was making it to be something bigger than it actually was...

Wow. I'm not saying what you did was right. But at least you admitted to your mistake. He sounds like a real winner and it's probably best that something happened early in your sisters marriage, before there were children.

Yeah that's so true!

I just hope she will forgive me in due time because she said something like why am I not surprised this always happens when you're around, and I have no idea what she was talking about

I think your sister deserves an explanation of what happened. I'm sure she still has lots of questions. You may have things you forgot to mention yesterday. Things you want to point out. I'd say write it all down. Then give it to her. Wait until you think it's time though, got to give her some time first.