I was rejected for the first time in a very long time last night, and guess what I felt self-doubt, insecurity and all the other cringy feelings creeping in on me.
I am trying to reflect on it and turn it into a positive, any tips ?
the girl rejected me, she said she wouldn't give her phone number to be because she don't know me, her body language was friendly and she laughed and smiled alot, so I am sort of pissed off why she was sending me mix signals. If I was rejected by a boring person who didn't give me much of an reaction, I think I would rationalize it in my head to be their fault and that they were asocial, however this girl was extremely social and had a bubbly personality.
I think she was just BS testing me and I wasn't man enough to step up and sweep her of her feet.
No matter, I am not at the stage of dealing with rejection which is new to me as it hasn't happened in a very long time.