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I think my best friend likes me and I like him back but too nervous to ask?

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Original post by Clip
Thank you for referring this problem to me.

I'm assuming you're both over 18.

I prescribe a 12 pack of Corona and a bottle of vodka.

To be taken once equally amongst both patients.

Wait 90 minutes from initial dosage.

Start talking.

Next patient, please.

Nope we're 16 ahaha
Original post by Anonymous
I didn't want to ask him upfront in the fear of getting friendzoned


Yeah and I think that's exactly what he fears too haha.

I think you know what to do yourself because you asked it in the first place - what are some subtler ways of asking if he likes you. I really think you try and take the issue as to finding out whether he does or not into your hands because I think he's too scared to move himself XD
Reply 22
Original post by Anonymous
Nope we're 16 ahaha


Then under no circumstances take my advice - even though I am pretty sure that the legal drinking age in a private residence is 5.
Has he ever given you signs that he likes you back? Or has he ever talked to you about girls that he has fancied in the past?
Original post by Clip
Then under no circumstances take my advice - even though I am pretty sure that the legal drinking age in a private residence is 5.

It was pretty amazing advice
Original post by TorpidPhil
Yeah and I think that's exactly what he fears too haha.

I think you know what to do yourself because you asked it in the first place - what are some subtler ways of asking if he likes you. I really think you try and take the issue as to finding out whether he does or not into your hands because I think he's too scared to move himself XD

EEEEEEK so nervous
Just keep flirting with him, make it obvious you like him. Don't ask him out though :afraid:
Original post by Sir Peter Rabbit
Just keep flirting with him, make it obvious you like him. Don't ask him out though :afraid:

I think I would just chicken out aha.. I doubt I will
Original post by Anonymous
I didn't want to ask him upfront in the fear of getting friendzoned


If you're ''best friends'' there is a good chance you already are.
I've been in a similar situation twice (the second time was after a shorter friendship though).

The first time ended horrifically. Despite me thinking I knew this person inside and out, he hurt me badly. The second time has worked out so unbelievably well that it was worth the risk of the first scenario happening again. Go for it.
but you're best friends! me and my best friends act silly together/ flirty/ but it just shows how comfortable we are together! we're best friends therefore there are very little barriers.
lol, not every friendship with a guy has to be romantic and the one with your guy might not be.
A guy gets out of the friendzone after two years! :biggrin:

Is that you Chandler?
Original post by fabulasmic
I've been in a similar situation twice (the second time was after a shorter friendship though).

The first time ended horrifically. Despite me thinking I knew this person inside and out, he hurt me badly. The second time has worked out so unbelievably well that it was worth the risk of the first scenario happening again. Go for it.

What happened the second time?:smile:
Original post by Eboracum
A guy gets out of the friendzone after two years! :biggrin:

Is that you Chandler?


I'm a girl :colone:
If you are both fairly 'hot', I'd wager 50/50 that he likes you back.
Original post by Anonymous
What happened the second time?:smile:


He took me out for dinner, asked me to be his girlfriend, and we have been really happy ever since! He is without exaggeration the kindest person I have ever met and the one I have the most fun with :smile:
Original post by fabulasmic
He took me out for dinner, asked me to be his girlfriend, and we have been really happy ever since! He is without exaggeration the kindest person I have ever met and the one I have the most fun with :smile:


Do you mind if I PM you about this?
Reply 37
Ask him in a flirty way who he likes and look him in the eye or something, if he asks who you like just admit it while smiling at him in a innocent, flirty way.
Original post by Anonymous
He does flirt back but when my mate said to him that we would make a cute couple he blushed and kept on saying we didn't


Definately a lie. Ask him out. Trust me I know.
Original post by Daveishere
Definately a lie. Ask him out. Trust me I know.


Why are you so sure?

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