How bad am I?

Me and my (female friend) are both 19. When she was at the shops and I was at her house I couldn't resist going through her drawers to see what her bra size was. Now I feel awful. Am I overthinking this or is it really bad?

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Reply 1

Simes

Yep, that's bad. Sick weirdo pervy-type bad. But since you feel awful, I vote: forgiven.

But make it a habit and you're a scum-sucker.

You did want a straight answer, didn't you?

Reply 2

Kill3er

Relax.

Why do you care? Jealousy?

Edit: You're a guy. Very bad you ****ing perv.

(edited 9 years ago)

Reply 3

parsyyy

buy her a bra so it makes you feel less guilty.

Reply 4

Borgia

Original post by Simes

Yep, that's bad. Sick weirdo pervy-type bad. But since you feel awful, I vote: forgiven.

But make it a habit and you're a scum-sucker.

You did want a straight answer, didn't you?

Yes.

Reply 5

Truflais

Bit strange, I'd probs be a bit confused as to why a friend would do it :s-smilie:

I wouldn't tell her anyway, she'd probably be annoyed. Just...don't do it again :erm:

Reply 6

Simes

Original post by Kill3er

Relax.

Why do you care? Jealousy?

(a) Because blokes rummaging about in ladies' underwear drawers seems to upset them.

(b) Because I wouldn't be too chuffed at discovering some bloke had been rummaging about in my wife's or daughter's underwear drawer.

Once is curiosity and I can understand that, esecially when one feels a bit grubby afterwards for doing it.

But if one continues, then the next steps are what? Stealing dirty knickers from the washing basket?

(edited 9 years ago)

Reply 7

Kill3er

Original post by Simes

The next step is umm... DON'T ****ING DO IT.

Reply 8

Borgia

Original post by Precious Illusions

Bit strange, I'd probs be a bit confused as to why a friend would do it :s-smilie:

I wouldn't tell her anyway, she'd probably be annoyed. Just...don't do it again :erm:

I feel awful. I think I'm going to be sick. She's noticed that I'm acting differently but I told her I'm just stressed, not that guilt and shame is eating away at my soul.

(edited 9 years ago)

Reply 9

Reeeeyah

Original post by Borgia

I feel awful. I think I'm going to be sick. She's noticed that I'm acting differently but I told her I'm just stressed, not that guilt and shame is eating away at my soul.

I think you need to calm down a bit. Yes what you did was a little weird but it's not THAT weird and it doesn't make you a bad person.

Try to forget about it and don't do it again. I doubt she would care about it as much as you do.

Reply 10

Borgia

Original post by Reeeeyah

I won't

Sound.

Original post by Borgia

You are going to hell my friend

Reply 13

i.am.lost

It sounds like it was just curiosity, rather than anything overtly sexual. It's good you recognise that it probably wasn't the right thing to do. Learn from that and don't do it again.

Reply 14

Borgia

Original post by i.am.lost

It sounds like it was just curiosity, rather than anything overtly sexual. It's good you recognise that it probably wasn't the right thing to do. Learn from that and don't do it again.

I didn't do anything with it. I looked at the label and put it back.

Reply 15

i.am.lost

Original post by Borgia

I didn't do anything with it. I looked at the label and put it back.

Exactly, just curiosity. But it's still a bit invasive. If it wasn't, you'd just ask her instead of snooping around her house. In the grand scheme of things, it's just poor decorum/etiquette/manners.

Reply 16

Borgia

Original post by i.am.lost

Exactly, just curiosity. But it's still a bit invasive. If it wasn't, you'd just ask her instead of snooping around her house. In the grand scheme of things, it's just poor decorum/etiquette/manners.

But does it make me a irredeemable person? I'm 19 so I can't really say that it was a youthful mistake.

Reply 17

i.am.lost

Original post by Borgia

But does it make me a irredeemable person? I'm 19 so I can't really say that it was a youthful mistake.

I'm 23 and I still attribute half my screw-ups to the naivety of youth. If you're irredeemable then I'm the spawn of satan. :rofl:

Reply 18

Borgia

Original post by i.am.lost

I'm 23 and I still attribute half my screw-ups to the naivety of youth. If you're irredeemable then I'm the spawn of satan. :rofl:

Thank you

Reply 19

username1719293

Original post by Borgia

Curiosity becomes a heavy load. Too heavy to hold and it will force you to be cold. It's a bit odd and I wouldn't do that personally but if nobody knows, you're ok.
I mean, its not like you stole her bra is it? It's pretty innocent to be hoenst. Don't feel bad about it, people do stupid **** all the time.