Ladies, what would you say makes a man damaged goods?

To go along with the corresponding thread "Guys what would you say makes a woman damaged goods???",

Ladies, what would you say makes a man damaged goods?

Reply 1

Groot

6

A man who got kicked hard in his crotch. Those goods would be damaged and unable to perform at optimal level in bed. :sadnod:

Reply 2

Protégé

11

Original post by Groot

A man who got kicked hard in his crotch. Those goods would be damaged and unable to perform at optimal level in bed. :sadnod:

The bigger they are, the harder they fall.

Reply 3

Dr Pesto

19

I'm disappointed, I thought this was going to be an interesting thread.

Reply 4

seventhdemon

1

Alcohol/ drug addictions, serious mental disorders, bad temper, extremely insecure posessive ... Again probably signs of mental issues...

Reply 5

Abbie :)

10

When they've already shown themself to be a 'player' - hard to change an opinion of a guy after he has gained that reputation.

Reply 6

lent6

Original post by Abbie :)

When they've already shown themself to be a 'player' - hard to change an opinion of a guy after he has gained that reputation.

You don't like players?

having a penis.

Original post by Groot

A man who got kicked hard in his crotch. Those goods would be damaged and unable to perform at optimal level in bed. :sadnod:

Someone give this girl a cookie, hilarious! :biggrin:

Reply 9

Borgia

10

Original post by seventhdemon

Alcohol/ drug addictions, serious mental disorders, bad temper, extremely insecure posessive ... Again probably signs of mental issues...

Really? How serious? Depression? Past self harm issues?

Reply 10

Abbie :)

10

Original post by lent6

You don't like players?

Nope

Reply 11

catsis

11

I wouldn't go for a guy who:

- did drugs or is recovering from any kind of drug addiction
- slept with more than 10 girls (I'm a virgin, it would be too intimidating)
- has mental issues (depression and others)
- was married/has kids
- was in prison before/ has a shady CRB (I know it's hard to detect that but if I knew beforehand then I would reject that but ignorance is bliss)
- had an STI or STD

I think that's about it.

Reply 12

Pheoa101

10

Kids. I'm not a big fan of children in general and the thought of having to play step-mommy to another woman's brood is enough for me to walk away from a relationship.

Reply 13

lent6

Original post by Abbie :)

Nope

Neither do I.

Reply 14

Amy04

2

I would always say people can change. O have seen people change you can't hold someones past against them, in ten years or so they may have been a different person.

However, my last boyfriend told me he was in youth offenders for fighting when he was 17, and he was now 28, my own dad who is a policeman said ah give him a chance. He was also still a bit of a druggy he smoked weed but he was a nice guy who treated me well, and didn't smoke around me. We split eventually but stayed friends, except I know he is now waiting to be sentenced for gbh as he was coked up at a party and battered the **** out of someone.

Never judge or hold a past against them (unless its murder or wife beating or something along those lines) but maybe always be wary?

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Reply 15

i.am.lost

18

Weighing in as a male here. Paranoia and abysmally low self-esteem.

Reply 16

Eveiebaby

12

I think that cheating, Going to jail for more than petty crime, having children or crazy exes still after them, severe addictions/out of control mental illness, being a bum, having problem, interfering parents/family members is too much for me to deal with. I've had to deal with these all at some stage.

Reply 17

kodlak

8

Northern Accent is a deal breaker

Reply 18

xtenshiai

12

Original post by Amy04

I would always say people can change. O have seen people change you can't hold someones past against them, in ten years or so they may have been a different person.

However, my last boyfriend told me he was in youth offenders for fighting when he was 17, and he was now 28, my own dad who is a policeman said ah give him a chance. He was also still a bit of a druggy he smoked weed but he was a nice guy who treated me well, and didn't smoke around me. We split eventually but stayed friends, except I know he is now waiting to be sentenced for gbh as he was coked up at a party and battered the **** out of someone.

Never judge or hold a past against them (unless its murder or wife beating or something along those lines) but maybe always be wary?

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If I knew that a guy beat someone so badly to go to jail I would still stay farrrr away from them despite there being a chance for them to change. If he can do that to someone he's capable of doing that to me.. I find it really intimidating.