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Are there any nice guys out there?

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Original post by ChaoticButterfly
Yup, will only find nice guys at the bottom.


I didn't mean that :tongue: I meant that by lowering her standards she might open herself up to a bigger variety of people, and consequently meet a greater number of guys. This will then increase her chances of finding said 'nice guy'.
The question is how do you perceive nice guys? Because despite what some people say on here, I would consider myself a nice guy. That's not being arrogant, I just know that I give a damn about what a girl thinks about me. Do you honestly think to yourself that you could go out with anyone as long as they're nice?
The question is how do you perceive nice guys? Because despite what some people say on here, I would consider myself a nice guy. That's not being arrogant, I just know that I give a damn about what a girl thinks about me. Do you honestly think to yourself that you could go out with anyone as long as they're nice?
Original post by Jamie_Love
The question is how do you perceive nice guys? Because despite what some people say on here, I would consider myself a nice guy. That's not being arrogant, I just know that I give a damn about what a girl thinks about me. Do you honestly think to yourself that you could go out with anyone as long as they're nice?


Nope I don't think that I could go out with anyone as long as they're nice. I've said previously obviously I've got to find them attractive and have a good personality...

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Well then your idea of nice is quite indistinguishable. Obviously there have been a lot of posts so I haven't read them all but what you seem to be asking is impossible for anyone else to answer. Everyone has their own idea of beauty, however in broad terms there are really nice people out there, if that helps?
Original post by will2348
To make a massive generalisation, nice guys tend to be the quieter ones and/or the ones without massive social lives (that's not to say they don't have any, just not massive ones) and tend to hang around in their group of other nice guys.

You're just looking in the wrong places.

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completely 100% wrong. Not just inaccurate, but actually the exact opposite of the truth.

So well done, its quite a feat to be quite that wrong.

For ****ing obvious reasons, nice guys tend to be popular and sociable, whereas no-one likes pricks so they have no-one to socialise with.

Best place to meet nice guys is in sports clubs or down the pub.
Original post by CatnipGlows
I didn't mean that :tongue: I meant that by lowering her standards she might open herself up to a bigger variety of people, and consequently meet a greater number of guys. This will then increase her chances of finding said 'nice guy'.


Implying there are more nice guys at the bottom :cool:

:tongue:

I don't mind. I quite enjoy being at the bottom :lazy:
Original post by cole-slaw
completely 100% wrong. Not just inaccurate, but actually the exact opposite of the truth.

So well done, its quite a feat to be quite that wrong.

For ****ing obvious reasons, nice guys tend to be popular and sociable, whereas no-one likes pricks so they have no-one to socialise with.

Best place to meet nice guys is in sports clubs or down the pub.
Sports clubs and down the club? Looool so where the alcoholics and English eqv of "jocks" live? Right...
Original post by Lewierhodes
Sports clubs and down the club? Looool so where the alcoholics and English eqv of "jocks" live? Right...


Alcoholics are at AA meetings, there are no English equivalent of "jocks", that's an American thing.
Original post by cole-slaw
Alcoholics are at AA meetings, there are no English equivalent of "jocks", that's an American thing.

Yeah there is, the overly popular kids who are complete stuck up ********s...
Original post by Lewierhodes
Yeah there is, the overly popular kids who are complete stuck up ********s...


If they were stuck up pricks, they wouldn't be popular, would they?

Use some common sense for gods sake.
A much better question would be where are the nice girls?
Where are the girls who aren't manipulative and controlling?
Where are the girls who don't texts loads of other guys and cheat?
Where are the girls who treat their boyfriends with respect?

I can't find them anywhere, it's like they don't exist
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Original post by cole-slaw
If they were stuck up pricks, they wouldn't be popular, would they?

Use some common sense for gods sake.

I know what I'm talking about. Maybe I'm just thinking about in high school terms, the popular people were too immature to see what they were doing to the less popular kids, would be considered bullying. Besides popular kids can be nice as hell until it comes to relationships.
Original post by Lewierhodes
I know what I'm talking about. Maybe I'm just thinking about in high school terms, the popular people were too immature to see what they were doing to the less popular kids, would be considered bullying. Besides popular kids can be nice as hell until it comes to relationships.


oh well everyone is a prick at school, its just the hormones. in real life things don't work like that.
Original post by cole-slaw
oh well everyone is a prick at school, its just the hormones. in real life things don't work like that.

In fairness I have noticed that since coming to uni
Original post by riawilkinson
Haha well pass some my way if you know some!!

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Ok so what does attract you then?
What physical features?
Original post by riawilkinson
I've had a couple of relationships and been on dates with a few guys etc but they all seem to lie/make stuff up/cheat on people. Where are all the 'nice' guys? :frown:

P.s. definitely not on tinder.

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Well I have been away travelling outside of the UK for years, so you would not have run into me yet :biggrin: Maybe all the other "nice guys" went travelling too.
Man some of you guys have got it all wrong.
You're just making massive generalizations.

I've met 'nice' shy guys banging every lassie that moved whilst with loving girls and 'mean' cocky guys doting on their girlfriends hand and foot. Everyone's different.

OP your ex can't have been that much of a douche if you stayed with him for 3 years, unless you just like to moan about him and love the attention and/or drama.

Why stay with someone who's an ******** to you for more than 3 days otherwise? Much less 3 years.
They're everywhere; they're the ones you find unattractive.
Original post by cole-slaw
completely 100% wrong. Not just inaccurate, but actually the exact opposite of the truth.

So well done, its quite a feat to be quite that wrong.

For ****ing obvious reasons, nice guys tend to be popular and sociable, whereas no-one likes pricks so they have no-one to socialise with.

Best place to meet nice guys is in sports clubs or down the pub.


As an absolute prick with no social life, I have to agree. lol

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