I'm single because most of the girls I try to form bonds with don't seem to give a ****, when ever I try to form a relationship with a girl I like, It always ends up being one sided, with me always starting up the conversation, always asking the questions, calling 1st, texting 1st, messaging 1st, etc and her adding insult to injury by not replying to my last messages in time or even worse,ever.
I've had people telling me many times(not just family members and loved ones) that I'm good-looking, I'm kind, I'm upfront, I'm this and that, so I don't know why I should assume that I am unattractive?, so now I just assume that I always go for the wrong girls(maybe she doesn't like black men, maybe she's a lesbian, maybe she prefers older men, maybe she doesn't like my lifestyle, etc), even asking a girl to go on a date with me is a challenge. But still I try to look at the bright side, at least I spent nothing on them.
Also, even if I got into a relationship now, I know fully well that if any girl came to me for just a fling I did be like "why didn't this happen when I was single?". I know a guy who broke up with his girlfriend because he shagged 5 other girls behind her back, yet a single guy like me couldn't get one. So I want to get into as many flings as possible before I find someone I'm ready to love til death.