Should I start going for Prostitutes instead of hoping for a quickie

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Why not find a friend with benefits?
It's casual and less desperate

So I should go "hey, you wanna be my friend with benefits?" or "do you know anyone who's interested in being friends with benefits?".

(edited 9 years ago)

Reply 21

kenni12

Original post by voiceofreason234

Amen (although go to East Asia, not the Netherlands).

Take a trip to Pattaya in Thailand, OP. Loads of girls there. Asian hookers do it way better and it's pretty easy to get them to **** without a condom too so the sex feels a ton better. You can stay with the girl all night for very little in comparison to the West.

Don't worry about douchebags who say it's sad or pathetic because they're just douchebags.

Maybe Netherlands, although I would want some ladyboy encountrers I don't think Thai sex workers are cautious about catching diseases as the ones in the Netherland

Reply 22

DanB1991

Original post by Jebedee

With that logic buying drinks for a girl is also morally unacceptable. And why would he jerk off before he goes? It makes the whole thing completely pointless then.

Just let the poor guy bust his nut, jeez.

Moral don't work like that. You'd be able to tell your mum you did one but not the other. And buying a girl a drink is more akin to giving a present IMO.

Sure let him bust his nut, but I would recommend not in a way that is likely to make him feel worse.

Original post by Peter rocks

And is 200 pounds worth sex?

Never said it was, more highlighting the incorrect information given. Personally I would say no, no it's not.

Reply 23

unprinted

Original post by Anonymous Coward

Become. A. Male. Escort.

.. the ideal way to be sexual with more men! The huge, overwhelming majority of clients for every sort of escort are men. Of the male escorts seen by the leading specialist sexual health service in London, 98.5% of the men had only male clients and the number with only female ones was tiny.

Original post by Butterfly92xo

Also, don't forget they harbour diseases and worse of all, HIV. Do not put your life at risk - why not try dating websites?

Offensive crap. Very high levels of condom use mean very low levels of STIs.

Original post by voiceofreason234

Take a trip to Pattaya in Thailand, OP. Loads of girls there. Asian hookers do it way better and it's pretty easy to get them to **** without a condom too so the sex feels a ton better. You can stay with the girl all night for very little in comparison to the West.

"Cheap (sex) holidays in other people's misery", as Johnny Rotten so nearly sang. Let's hope you don't catch anything.

Getting to the original questions :smile:

Original post by kenni12

I find getting into online encounters with men easier, I still feel that it would be better if I did it more with women.

Have you tried looking for MMF threesomes?

Now, I'm so sexually frustrated, that I'm starting to wonder if I'd have better results with a prostitute, I think if I start doing that, I'd be more confident in the sense that I wouldn't care about whether the next girl I meet would want me to sleep with her or not and if she obviously does, it would be a bonus.

It's an expensive thing to get into, even if you're not having to pay to fly half way around the world.

On the plus side, assuming you're respectful, you're guaranteed that she will be sexual with you. But having someone wiling to be sexual with you only because you've paid them would be deeply unerotic for me... are you sure you'd be ok with it? If it goes badly, you've just spent £100+ to talk about how this doesn't usually happen, honestly. If it goes well, that's great... but you'll have to pay again to see her again.

If you're going to do it, ignore agencies and brothels, and look at people working independently.

Reply 24

SiminaM

Original post by kenni12

So I should go "hey, you wanna be my friend with benefits?" or "do you know anyone who's interested in being friends with benefits?".

Honestly, I have no idea. Sorry. But I guess there are a lot of people interested in casual sex, especially at uni so it might not be that hard. Plus, friends with benefits it is a better thing to do than sleeping around, as you have a constant partner. Good luck whatever you choose to do :smile:

Reply 25

Jebedee

Original post by DanB1991

Everyone has a different idea of what is moral, I don't think it is moral at all and neither does OP as he's thinking about doing it. So your opinion on the morality is irrelevant.

Reply 26

DanB1991

Original post by Jebedee

Everyone has a different idea of what is moral, I don't think it is moral at all and neither does OP as he's thinking about doing it. So your opinion on the morality is irrelevant.

Public morals would suggest it's not widely accepted behaviour. Defiantly to the point no parent would want their child being engaged in it.

Private morals or ethics would be completely different.

Reply 27

voiceofreason234

Original post by kenni12

Maybe Netherlands, although I would want some ladyboy encountrers I don't think Thai sex workers are cautious about catching diseases as the ones in the Netherland

Well that's kinda one of the great things about Thailand. You can easily **** the bar girls without a condom, seriously loads of them are fine with it. Sex with a condom isn't really sex, you've got to do it without one to get the real feeling.

Reply 28

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Original post by voiceofreason234

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Reply 29

voiceofreason234

Original post by unprinted

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Reply 30

Jebedee

Original post by DanB1991

Public morals would suggest it's not widely accepted behaviour. Defiantly to the point no parent would want their child being engaged in it.

Private morals or ethics would be completely different.

Well he's not going to do it in public is he? So again, irrelevant.

Reply 31

DanB1991

Original post by Jebedee

Well he's not going to do it in public is he? So again, irrelevant.

People do get outed you know..... just like druh users and cheaters do when they slip up.

If you can't deal with the consequences of getting caught, don't do it.

Reply 32

snoop_frog

look people in TSR will feed you some bull**** about how you need to respect yourself etc. but these nerds aren't living in the real world.

go bone a prostitute, it's satisfying. ur a man, u need to cum and the right hand strokes are clearly not enough. think about it, u **** this whore then never have to see, talk to or hear about her ever again. just don't go for the crackheads (even though they're good value), it's not worth it

edit: forgot to mention, u might wanna implement the triple wrap

(edited 9 years ago)

Reply 33

Sam Walters

Original post by kenni12

I think was close in the club 4 times with girls that spent so much time kissing me on the dance-floor, but it never went further than that, because after sometime, while I was think about how or whether to get them from the dance floor to the bedroom, their attention diverted to something else..

Spend too long kissing a girl in a club and she will get the gratification shes after....Mix it up.

Reply 34

kenni12

Original post by voiceofreason234

...Sex with a condom isn't really sex, you've got to do it without one to get the real feeling.

I don't want to get the real feeling because I think that if I do it'd change my attitude to staying safe from diseases. The only thing that would make me have real sex with a girl is if I'm convinced she's a virgin.
Also, I'd prefer doing it with a condom, because like I said even if I want to bang more girls, I'll still opened to the idea of settling down with someone at the end and I don't want to transfer diseases to anyone, especially my future partner(whoever she is)

Reply 35

Lionheart96

Original post by DanB1991

Public morals would suggest it's not widely accepted behaviour. Defiantly to the point no parent would want their child being engaged in it.

Private morals or ethics would be completely different.

funny you should say that. Parents would hire their children prostitutes in China so that their children would focus less on sex and more on their education.
Peoples interpretation of morals are different, don't push your onto others.

Reply 36

Shakz

Original post by SiminaM

Why not find a friend with benefits?
It's casual and less desperate

well, maybe u could help a brother out then?

Reply 37

kenni12

Original post by Sam Walters

Spend too long kissing a girl in a club and she will get the gratification shes after....Mix it up.

That's what I was doing, I didn't know how to let them to my room without them being like "Hell no!"
-the 1st girl cut it short by telling me "I'll be right back in 2minutes", although she repeated it, a friend I was out with advised me to not believe her and move on
-the 2nd girl spent more than 30 minutes kissing me, letting me grind on her and touching my sausage and even removing my T-Shirt before her friend dragged her to who knows where
-the 3rd girl interrupted my text and kept kissing me and dancing with me until she went to buy drinks and started being flirty with another guy, even when the guy went away I noticed that her body language changed
- the 4th was someone I stopped texting because she started ignored my texts for more than 5months, I didn't even notice her when I saw her at the club, she started being flirty when I tried her sister, was kissing me, then she stopped and disappeared.

(edited 9 years ago)

Reply 38

Jebedee

Original post by DanB1991

People do get outed you know..... just like druh users and cheaters do when they slip up.

If you can't deal with the consequences of getting caught, don't do it.

What do you think is going to happen? Will they drag him to the town square carrying lanterns and hang him from the gallows? No one really gives a damn that much, honestly.