Does this sound rapey?

Definitely inappropriate, it is a bit rapey but I doubt he's being serious - some teenage-ish boys are incredibly immature and gross like that. You should tell him that that was a pretty horrible thing to say, but like others have said, if he does it again then you have a right to feel a lot more concerned.

I didn't lead him on or anything. I was just being my normal friendly self but I did notice he became a bit clingy. He's 26 and we're at university so he should know better.

So I used to go to the library a lot with a course mate. I didn't think that he was attracted to me but I guess he is. I was hanging with my friends and had been for a full day. He messaged me on fb asking me where I was and who I was with. I lied and said I was with my bf. He then said I should know him and went on a tangent. He then said that's disappointing. We were waiting for you to turn 18 before we could give you the D. Ok that scared me a bit I showed my friends and they said that I should report him. I think it's a bit extreme. My problem is who is "we"? I'm aware a few guys on my course may like me but they're way older than me and I just find it kind of creepy. Am I over thinking?

I don't have a boyfriend though. He kept pestering me and asking me who he was and what course is he on. I haven't spoken to him since so hopefully he's taken the hint.

(LOL @ "leading on" - there's no such thing, I hate when guys say that a girl being friendly to them = flirting)

Is that Ched Evans?

'There's no such thing'

Grow up. Some girls do lead men on, and know full well what they're doing. It's not some magical phenomenon whereby all men assume all friendly girls are flirting. Stick to speaking for yourself.

I'm scared now. I noticed that he has a mean streak to him as well. My best way to deal with the situation is to ignore him and if that doesn't work I'll take further action. My main problem is who is we. Is there a group of them planning to corner me somehow and rape me? I'm not going to ask him as it's weird. Why do they have to wait til I'm 18 anyway? What difference does it make? If there is a group of them, I know who they are. I actually deleted all his messages and have no proof. ffs

"Grow up"?

You're the one who's assuming that just because someone is being friendly and nice to you, that they want to get jiggy or go out with you. It's pretty immature to not be able to handle a girl being friendly without thinking she wants to go out with you.