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In other words: you wanted to make a relationship, but no one with you? and since you was dumbed a relationship for you is over completely?

Not entirely no.

Reply 141

pencil_case

Original post by Anonymous

Cos i'm too afraid of rejection and not good enough for most women it would seem. I'm also afraid of someone actually liking me because it means sharing my life and opening up myself to them.

Something that i can't do because they'll just leave me once they find out who i really am.

Of course you're good enough. Being yourself around someone you like is always scary because there's the chance that they won't like you and that will hurt. You're not going to be compatible with everyone you meet but someday you'll find someone who'll like you for you and you'll wonder why you ever worried in the first place. You have to have confidence in who you are to know that you are good enough and deserving of someone caring.

If people don't appreciate you, they can jog on :smile:

Reply 142

pocahontas lol

Original post by MrsSheldonCooper

Yeah I guess.. My excuse therefore is I haven't found the right guy yet :rolleyes:

Have you found the wrong guy?

Reply 143

MrsSheldonCooper

Original post by pocahontas lol

Have you found the wrong guy?

Yeah I've had bad experiences

Reply 144

pocahontas lol

Original post by MrsSheldonCooper

Yeah I've had bad experiences

We all have. In fact, it's making me quite unhinged.

Reply 145

MrsSheldonCooper

Original post by pocahontas lol

We all have. In fact, it's making me quite unhinged.

Sameee I'm such a wreck

Reply 146

pocahontas lol

Original post by MrsSheldonCooper

Sameee I'm such a wreck

Try this song. She is angry for us. Ironically, the man who makes me feel this way right now, sent me the song before he made me feel this way.

Reply 147

MrsSheldonCooper

Original post by pocahontas lol

Try this song. She is angry for us. Ironically, the man who makes me feel this way right now, sent me the song before he made me feel this way.

What an idiot! Dw you'll find someone amazing :smile:

Reply 148

pocahontas lol

Original post by MrsSheldonCooper

What an idiot! Dw you'll find someone amazing :smile:

Probably. You too. But right now I'm feeling strange...

Reply 149

MrsSheldonCooper

Original post by pocahontas lol

Probably. You too. But right now I'm feeling strange...

Listen to Beyonce :smile:

Reply 150

pocahontas lol

Original post by MrsSheldonCooper

Listen to Beyonce :smile:

I think I need to sleep instead. *sings Sweet Dreams as I dance to my bed*

Reply 151

MrsSheldonCooper

Original post by pocahontas lol

I think I need to sleep instead. *sings Sweet Dreams as I dance to my bed*

That's the way to gooo

Reply 152

Mendeleev

I think it's a bit of an inappropriate question to ask. There can often be very complex reasons.
Personally, after a couple of pretty stressful relationships, I'd rather just have some time to myself. Also, given that I'm now able to go to bars, clubs etc. I'd obviously rather stay single for certain reasons :wink:

Reply 153

Kallisto

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Original post by Binary Freak

Not entirely no.

If that is the case I wish you the best of luck to make a relationship one day

Reply 154

Binary Freak

Original post by Kallisto

If that is the case I wish you the best of luck to make a relationship one day

Thanks! Probably won't be going into one for a while anyway, I has insecurities and suffer from mild anxiety; Nobody should suffer because of this.

Reply 155

acireric

Original post by MrsSheldonCooper

Yeah I guess.. My excuse therefore is I haven't found the right guy yet :rolleyes:

Or because Sheldon is dating Amy Farrah Fowler and he isn't availble? :tongue:

Reply 156

Aria Enoshima

People have allready tried to make me look 'attractive' for the opposite sex at 15 and whilst i wouldn't mind it, i'm not going to make myself look more 'cool' or w/e just to get a grill.

Reply 157

MrsSheldonCooper

Original post by acireric

Or because Sheldon is dating Amy Farrah Fowler and he isn't availble? :tongue:

Correct

Reply 158

Kallisto

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Original post by Binary Freak

Thanks! Probably won't be going into one for a while anyway, I has insecurities and suffer from mild anxiety; Nobody should suffer because of this.

That is right. A relationship full of suffering for one of the partners is not very good. From this point of view its the best for someone being single for a while.

Reply 159

Binary Freak

Original post by Kallisto

That is right. A relationship full of suffering for one of the partners is not very good. From this point of view its the best for someone being single for a while.