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I'm a male at uni, I just want sex no strings attached

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Reply 20

DanB1991

Original post by Kaiju

not even close on either count
it's relatively easy to get NSA if you're not socially defunct and i'm a guy who'd shut it down unless i reaaaaaaally felt like it

i feel your plight having been to Staffs though, that place is a sausagefest

Stoke campus not the staffs one :wink:

and have had no trouble personally, but then again this is the first time in two years I've had a free leash to get with who I want.

Original post by TorpidPhil

Yet you think all guys would accept NSA sex from a girl after an offer and not be doing it in the hopes of getting in a more serious relationship? Why do you think that the vast majority of girls who are in NSA relationships are only in such because they might persuade the other to develop romantic interests to them?

Tbh I've only seen one or two girls at uni who actually wanted a NSA, the rest didn't really want a NSA but just wanted so badly to be with that guy. Always ends in tiers.

Original post by Paralove

'Damaged women'?!

As in bat**** crazy... Mental... off their rocker... or sometimes simply not in reality suitable for NSA. If a woman really want's NSA I find she'll initiate it, if it's the other way around something is usually wrong somewhere and doesn't usually end well for all parties involved.

Reply 21

JackR7821

Original post by RemyLeigh

Which uni are you at?

^^ Work done OP.. You have found your match!

Reply 22

holmes221

Original post by DanB1991

Your a bloke.... it's pretty much impossible for your to achieve this intentionally.

Women on the other hand, any guy would accept the proposition of NSA sex.

Working towards something VS just getting it on a plate. Who is more likely to be successful in later life?

Reply 23

Anonymous #2

Original post by C.Bentley

First step: Ask about her relationship with her father. If she says anything good. Move on.

Elaborate...

Reply 24

DanB1991

Original post by Gott

I want NSA sex in year 12 but.... Yeah. What makes you think there are more sl*** at university (probably depends on the uni)?

You tend to find people become more "liberated"... or in reality get more drunk and lower their standards during freshers, spend the rest of the year as a prune, then realise at some point in second or third year no1 cares who they bang.

But pretty much your statement is not too off the mark.

Reply 25

swayze11

Original post by C.Bentley

First step: Ask about her relationship with her father. If she says anything good. Move on.

haha, that's certainly one way.

OP I wouldn't get your hopes up too much to begin with. Besides it's pretty overrated and the chances are that it will cause more drama than it's worth.

(edited 9 years ago)

Reply 26

swayze11

Original post by Gott

You saying sex is overrated?!

There is a saying that 'if that's what you have to do to get your end away, you've gotta do it'

No I was referring that the benefits of a NSA relationship are overrated.
That saying is rather void btw.

Reply 27

El Salvador

It's going down, I'm yellin' TINDER

Reply 28

Viridiana

Original post by Gott

I want NSA sex in year 12 but.... Yeah. What makes you think there are more sl*** at university (probably depends on the uni)?

Why sluts?

Reply 29

Viridiana

Original post by Gott

Beacuse they can't get enough lol

Can you :P ?

Reply 30

Ahava

Original post by Guy Secretan

Do you think that would actually work I mean most girls who want a one night stand would go for the good looking guys.

Has a good possibility of working, yes. I would definitely say I am not everyones cup of tea at all, but have had a lot of one night stands in the past, which were followed up for more no strings attached. Of course we would all pick good looking guys if we could, but some of us aren't that good looking ourselves...

Reply 31

Jezebelle

Original post by Gott

I want NSA sex in year 12 but.... Yeah. What makes you think there are more sl*** at university (probably depends on the uni)?

I dislike the use of the word slut but there's just more sex at university in general because people are living away from home. People don't generally want to bring one night stands into their parents house.

Reply 32

Illegal Algebra

Yeah same, all men are like that. It's pretty hard though, even ugly girls are difficult to chase down these days. It's gonna take a lot of effort, there's no easy way to get pussy, unless you're rich and can afford to hire a call girl every night of the week.

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Prostitutes.

ditto

Original post by Ahava

Go to a club and talk to some girls (not about the sex). Have a one night stand and a few days after, follow up with her and ask if she would like to 'hang out' with you. She will know from the one night stand what you want to happen and by hang out, it's casual and clearly not a date.

Join tinder or something like POF. Clearly state on your profile you aren't looking for a serious, long term relationship, you would like to be casual. Talk to some girls for a while. Do not ask in the first few days about meeting up or anything sexual, because that's creepy. After a while ask to meet up. Again let them know you don't want anything serious. See if they're on the same page as you too.

Funny how you think that's creepy, but you don't think signing up to Plenty of Fish or Tinder solely to find girls for no-strings-attached sex isn't creepy.

Reply 36

HarryDn

Original post by magicnmedicine

i can tell you have got a charming personality so maybe you could use that :d

sick burn

Reply 37

Tootles

Original post by Anonymous

How can I do that?

Work it out for yourself.

I'd say my looks are a 6/10 which is above average,

So would most people of your age and in your position.

I'm not looking for beautiful girls,

That's good to know.

I'd bang a 4/10 or above,

Talk about standards.

maybe 3 if I was extra horny.

My, aren't you kind.

I cba putting effort in and finding a girlfriend.

Girls cba putting effort in to make their organs available for your use.

Basically... congratulations on discovering you have a penis. However, you're at university to get a degree, not to find oppurtunities to copulate. If your preference is to simply get your end away, you should rethink where you are and why.

Reply 38

Ahava

Original post by Pride

Funny how you think that's creepy, but you don't think signing up to Plenty of Fish or Tinder solely to find girls for no-strings-attached sex isn't creepy.

Plenty of people, male or female, sign up to things like Tinder and POF purely for casual relationships. But, many people will agree, it's not nice to be bombarded with a ton of sexual explicit messages after a mere two minutes of talking to a person. It happens, and it's off putting. Fair enough, your intentions are to find a casual relationship on there, but there really is no need to come across as a sexuall starved maniac who will stop at nothing to get it.

Reply 39

Earl North

The two easiest ways to get casual sex is Tinder and meeting girls at clubs in my opinion.

I see some guys here saying that it’s not possible to initiate casual sex as a guy. Please don’t listen to them. Just because it’s been hard for them does not mean it’s not possible. It very much is. Girls are sexual beings just like us. If someone’s having a hard time getting casual sex, it’s on them and not the girls.

If you’re ”game” is a bit rusty. I’d say go with Tinder.