Need to break up with Boyfriend but his Birthday is soon

guys don't care about this stuff

Reply 2

JackBlack

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Original post by Anonymous

I need to break up officially with my Boyfriend. BUT his Brithday is on the 28th..

What should I do? Break up now a week before or let him enjoy his Birthday and break up one/two weeks after?

And I don't need advice on whether to break up or not, he'll understand why it's kinda happened already but I need to officially do it & now have anything to do with him ASAP .. BUT I want to do it at a appropriate time, because officially breakup will still hurt his feelings and give him a memory of a crappy birthday ..

Just do it now. There's no point sticking around if you don't wanna be with him.

Reply 3

Simes

Just do it.

Anything else is lying and deceitful.

Reply 4

Simes

... and if you don't do it before his birthday, you can't do it just after. Then 2 weeks later it's St Valentine's Day. So that means you have to wait until at least March. And then it's nearly Easter holidays...

Reply 5

Ndella

Break up with him now and give him his present in the mail.

Reply 6

tengentoppa

Break up with him now so you don't have to buy him a present.

Reply 7

Aria Enoshima

Make like Nike and just do it.
Plus, his bday is 3 days after my sisters (fun fact)

Reply 8

louieee

birthday bj don't be cruel

Reply 9

Zarek

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It's an irrelevance so you might as well save a birthday present.

Reply 10

OP

Original post by Simes

... and if you don't do it before his birthday, you can't do it just after. Then 2 weeks later it's St Valentine's Day. So that means you have to wait until at least March. And then it's nearly Easter holidays...

Fair point tbh... could do it a week after :/

Original post by poohat

guys don't care about this stuff

You don't know the situation & he will ok.

Original post by louieee

birthday bj don't be cruel

Lmao.

Original post by Ndella

Break up with him now and give him his present in the mail.

Original post by tengentoppa

Break up with him now so you don't have to buy him a present.

It's not even about the present buying tbh....

Original post by JackBlack

Just do it now. There's no point sticking around if you don't wanna be with him.

I like him and he likes me, something happened with was out of our control and it caused us to breakup without actually saying we broke up, but we still meet&talk, kiss etc BUT really I need to put a stop to all it, after what happened so I need to officially break up .

Original post by Simes

Just do it.

Anything else is lying and deceitful.

Read what I said to JackBlack :biggrin:

Reply 11

OP

Original post by Aria Enoshima

Make like Nike and just do it.
Plus, his bday is 3 days after my sisters (fun fact)

That's nice.

Reply 12

RotatingPhasor

10

Go to his birthday and give him a birthday card with a note in it that says, 'We're finished mate'. Also don't forget to give him a box of chocolates and flowers with it.

Reply 13

OP

Original post by Zarek

It's an irrelevance so you might as well save a birthday present.

Haven't even thought of what to give him yet LMAO.

Idk what to do, break up a week after or now...

Reply 14

Alarae

I broke up with my ex a week before Christmas...

I took him to Taste of Chaos at Wembley though and he saw his favourite band a few days before I dumped him so it was like a consolation present.

Bit awkward when he gave me my already bought present a few days after we broke up though...

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Reply 15

OP

Original post by RotatingPhasor

Go to his birthday and give him a birthday card with a note in it that says, 'We're finished mate'. Also don't forget to give him a box of chocolates and flowers with it.

No that's cruel and not appropriate in this situation..

Actually in ANY situation breaking up with someone on their Birthday is just not appropriate AT ALL imo, if they did something bad to you, then I could understand, but me personally even if someone cheated on me I would break up maybe two days before or after the birthday...

Just my opinion

Reply 16

Simes

Original post by Anonymous

I like him and he likes me, something happened with was out of our control and it caused us to breakup without actually saying we broke up, but we still meet&talk, kiss etc BUT really I need to put a stop to all it, after what happened so I need to officially break up .

It sounds like you don't really want to break up so don't.

Reply 17

realunited

8

Break up asap

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Reply 18

Zarek

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Original post by Anonymous

Haven't even thought of what to give him yet LMAO.

Idk what to do, break up a week after or now...

I would go for now as post break up he will reflect you were being hypocritical celebrating with him and feel even more bitter. An ex of mine gave me an Xmas present with a label saying 'love always' on the evening she dumped me. Wtf..

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