How do I get a muslim girl to be my GF(not like other threads)

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Reply 140

Groot

Original post by BullViagra

dont be stupid.

If you're going to call me stupid due to my post, you should at least explain why it sounds stupid.

Reply 141

themorninglight

Didn't read through all the pages so apologies if this has been said before. Either be serious about it (i.e marriage) or stay away from her.

Reply 142

BullViagra

Original post by Groot

If you're going to call me stupid due to my post, you should at least explain why it sounds stupid.

ideally you should be able to work that out for yourself, but you're stupid, so you can't.

if the idea that it is oxymoronic for a group of 1.6 billion people to have romantic pre-marital relationships then you are absolutely retarded.

Reply 143

goobypls

Original post by Up quark

If you stuck by the laws of allah, you wouldnt be in this mess. You have to stop talking to her ok

Yes, he can. But op has already said that this is out of the question.

Rasulullah (saw) did encourage people do get married early tho

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Are you stupid he is 19 that is no age to get married.

Reply 144

iAmanze

Lol this is like what's happening in Eastenders between Shabnam and Kush :biggrin:

Reply 145

goobypls

Op just go for her and let her know how you feel, there is nothing wrong with loving someone.

Maybe take her out to to dinner and go to the cinema together, don't rush and take it slowly.

Also ignore those who tell you to stay away from her because that's more likely going to hurt you and make you upset.

Reply 146

themorninglight

Original post by goobypls

Bad advice.

Reply 147

goobypls

Original post by themorninglight

Bad advice.

Tell me whats so bad about this ?

Reply 148

Islamschl1

Look into the true Islam from reliable sources, realize the true and peaceful religion, convert to Islam then respectfully ask her hand in marriage without losing her dignity.. as in Islam having a GF or BF is a big sin.. but there is nothing wrong in falling in love and getting married to your love as the prophet (SAW) said "The best thing for to lovers is marriage".. like this you dont lose your dignities and virginities before marriage and keep your self respect intact which is such a beautiful blessing.

Reply 149

goobypls

Original post by Islamschl1

They are already both muslims lol and marriage is not an option at this point.

I suggest they hang out together for maybe 3-4 years.

Reply 150

generic_man

Forget your religion, have a glass of whisky, man up, ask her out.

Reply 151

Groot

Original post by BullViagra

It's not very peaceful to be so aggressive / insulting like you are to me. I hope you're not a Muslim, because otherwise you'd be adding to the bad reputation.

Anyway. As far as I know, in Islam, men and women who are unrelated are not supposed to form friendships, let alone explore a romantic pre-marital relationship. Those Muslims who do are not following Islam strictly. They compromise with their religion, not following the Islamic rules which they deem unnecessary for them.

Reply 152

Mary562

Original post by generic_man

Forget your religion, have a glass of whisky, man up, ask her out.

That is bad advice

Reply 153

ttaylor17

Original post by Enoxial

What did she say? :awesome:

Says she likes me too... We have similar interests hobbies and passions... But as a friend... Not a guy... But she's my cousin and her mom found out we were talking and told her not to talk to me so yeah it failed... I think she just finds it awkward we're cousins...

Reply 154

generic_man

Original post by Mary562

That is bad advice

Explain why.

Reply 155

Mary562

Original post by generic_man

Explain why.

Maybe you know the answer to that yourself :h:

Reply 156

username1749779

Islam doesn't allows dating. It's a big sin in Islam to have sex before marriage. Islam allows you to marry the one you love with proper Nikkah, that is legitimate way. If you are serious then do what Islam says #period. Other wise stop making things up on your own about Islam when you don't know anything people.

If you wanna break the rules, go ahead. But be ready to give the answers and suffer later on.

Reply 157

generic_man

Original post by Mary562

Maybe you know the answer to that yourself :h:

I don't, and I don't think you do either.

Reply 158

Inglisred

Original post by apple1992

(okay development from last post, I like this girl now.)
(not like other muslim girl threads, as this girl likes me)

She is muslim, and she have never had a BF becuase of it. (respectable.)
I am muslim too.
I know she likes me, but she suppresses her feelings!!!!!

- She does does not outright flirt. But she argues with me over everything. And our friends have seen this. They have both seen the high level of passion. (they even mention this, and she blushes)
- When we revise as a group, my friends say she is constantly looking up at me. I have caught her once of twice.
- she will wake me up in the morning early so we can spend the of the day together.
- she was really jealous of this girl, I used to like.

- if we ever got in the relationship I would never too her. I just want her companionship.

So what can I do, I am starting to like her very much.
This is killing me inside.
(would also like some advice from muslims too please)

I can already imagine the string of judgmental, self righteous Muslims discouraging you from pursuing this any further :tongue:

Don't let them make you feel that you're doing something so horrible :smile:

I can relate to coming from a conservative Muslim community where everyone judges your every move (not an ex-Muslim though, I have a problem with the people mainly).

Um, if you want to go out with her, just ask? Be frank, but not scary or too domineering.