My boyfriend hasn't spoken to me in a week?

go see him? if you really want answers the only option is to go to his place or wherever he is and see him. call his friends/family to see if he's okay?

Did you go meet him personally? Things like this should be talked about face to face and not through texts. If he wasn't replying then surely you could've made an effort to go talk it out?

Go see him, sit him down, and tell him how you feel and what you want out of this relationship.

Goodluck!


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Is he actually OK? Maybe you should show concern first, before jumping into conclusions. Text his friends.

I don't know. I assumed so at first instance, and now I'm actually really scared something has happened
I don't know any of his friends, except work friends. I didn't really want to call up the place where he works to see whats going on because I wanted to keep my distance as I thought that what he wanted.

I don't know. I assumed so at first instance, and now I'm actually really scared something has happened
I don't know any of his friends, except work friends. I didn't really want to call up the place where he works to see whats going on because I wanted to keep my distance as I thought that what he wanted.

Facebook?

It doesn't sound like you two have been going out all that long if your first thought is that he's just trying to make you chase him rather than being concerned for his wellbeing if my boyfriend hadn't replied to my texts or calls I'd be terrified something had happened especially as we're long distance can you Facebook one of his flat mates or friends or what not just to check he's ok? He could have lost his phone or something especially if you say it's out of character for him to ignore you for this length of time. If you don't know any of his friends (again odd if you're so serious you are talking about living together) then I would definitely text his mum if you two are friendly just to make sure everything is ok? Or if you're able to, go round his house.

Check his last seen on Whatsapp?
Or wait it out. You never know with lads, it could just turn out that he was busy with work or family or whatever. (Even though that's a bit negligent of him to keep you hanging.)

He last was on more than a week ago, which is unusual since he tends to check it every few days.
I'm sick of being left hanging and that's why I got so angry, which I now really regret.

I'm sorry to hear that he's gone all quiet during what must be a really difficult time for you. It must be worrying, as you don't know whether it's intentional (which is bad) or because something's happened to him (which is worse).

How long have you two been together? It sounds like a serious relationship, so it's a bit unusual that you don't know his friends. Does he have a social media profile you can check to see if he is okay?

I think that when he surfaces, you two need to have a long chat, face to face. You need to both express your feelings, what you want out of the relationship, what you don't want, and figure out how to move forward.

If he is ignoring you, that isn't right. It also wasn't right for you to threaten to break up with him, just to get him to respond - that's playing games, and if you want to have a healthy relationship together, game-playing isn't the way forward.

I hope that he gets in touch with you soon, and that you two can work things out.