Sleeping with a guy I don't find attractive

cod damn women are so shallow lol. further proof that hair loss is a death sentence, looks like your bf is on his way to the norwood cemetary - RIP in peace

I've been seeing him for nearly two months, and we've just started sleeping together. But he has a bit of a belly, not muscle definition at all and is also quite self conscious. When we were dating, we'd flirt a LOT and he acted so confident. But now in bed, I can tell he is very self conscious. Will only get intimate in the dark etc.

I enjoy his company but I don't think I'm attracted to him. I always say I think he's hot etc and it makes him happy. But I feel like I'm lying to him.

I have said things like "We should work out together" "Let's go jogging" etc because I work out everyday at home or in the gym. I'm not fitness model, but I like to take care of my body. He used to workout too, but he let himself go after some personal problems. Don't know how to tackle this problem.

What shall I do?

I've been seeing him for nearly two months, and we've just started sleeping together. But he has a bit of a belly, not muscle definition at all and is also quite self conscious. When we were dating, we'd flirt a LOT and he acted so confident. But now in bed, I can tell he is very self conscious. Will only get intimate in the dark etc.

I enjoy his company but I don't think I'm attracted to him. I always say I think he's hot etc and it makes him happy. But I feel like I'm lying to him.

I have said things like "We should work out together" "Let's go jogging" etc because I work out everyday at home or in the gym. I'm not fitness model, but I like to take care of my body. He used to workout too, but he let himself go after some personal problems. Don't know how to tackle this problem.

What shall I do?

22 percent bodyfat brah who doesn't have problems with women checking in.

Can you imagine the uproar if this thread was about a man wanting his girl to loose fat and lift though, people would be calling him shallow, jerk etc but here are people telling her she doesn't respect herself.

Uwotm8.

Have you not realisef TSR is biased against men because of the age group and modding? It takes extreme sexists to get a male perspective noticed.

I don't think you need to dump him since you've not cheated and seem to still like everything else about him. I do think you should give him an ultimatum though.. he has 6 months to be the man you know he can be or you will seek a more desirable mate.

22 percent bodyfat brah who doesn't have problems with women checking in.

Can you imagine the uproar if this thread was about a man wanting his girl to loose fat and lift though, people would be calling him shallow, jerk etc but here are people telling her she doesn't respect herself.

Uwotm8.

Where's your self respect?

Tbh if i was the guy and knew this i'd dump her ass in a second. Hermit myself for as long as it takes to become a sick shredded slaying machine. Then **** hotter girls and rub it in her face.

I hope he kicks her to the curb!

When you first start having sex with someone - they are nervous at first but the more times you sleep with someone then the more you grow confident and you do trust that person more so are willing to be yourself more. Tbh, I'm exactly the same lol. It's just cause you don't know each other that well...

I wouldn't say you wasn't attracted to him because I do actually think you are. You said you love his confidence and arrogance so you are attracted to his personality at least. I would keep trying to suggest to hm about gym etc. but perhaps he feels anxious after the surgery so something like that makes him feel out of place? It's a lot different for a man to go to the gym etc. then a woman. More expectations tbh etc. if it is really bothering you that much after a few weeks or so - then I would end it with him. It's not fair to lead him on and think there is something there when you don't think that.



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cod damn women are so shallow lol. further proof that hair loss is a death sentence, looks like your bf is on his way to the norwood cemetary - RIP in peace

Does he have a receding hairline. What so you don't think he is good looking either (as well as his body) also good for you regarding the blow. I don't really know what to suggest as I don't understand why you agreed to be with him if you knew you didn't find him attractive.

How many inches doh?

I'm guessing around 8

Is it really? What is he, black?

Asian! I was shocked!

Asian as in Oriental or South East Asian

South East Asian

Well, that narrows it down alot, so basically you dont like him, or feel that you dont like him is because you are a racist!


There you go, ive help you realise this...

Throw some currency on the way out.. thank you come again.