Ino how you feel. Like exactly.
And im also not even fat im just very curvy. I have a big ass, which i love, thick thighs, which i love, and im VERY busty which makes me look much bigger than i am but i love having them i guess. Yet you can have all these good features but one bad one, in this case for me my stomach, can just totally bring you down.
My advice is just get some nice lingerie. I go for the ones that cover your stomach and emphasise your chest or even corsets and i cant tell you how much more confident it makes me feel. You look sexy and your problem areas are covered so your not worried hes looking.
Im lucky enough to have a boyfriend who tells me he adores my body exactly how it is. But unfortunately theres guys out there who will judge you based on size and i bet they dont have the perfect body with six packs and big d*cks so who are they to judge.
Real women have curves and real men appreciate them