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Original post by Handsome_Devil
Now that's not true :wink:


It totally is!:biggrin:


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Original post by Foo.mp3
I see. Well, in that case you may consider yourself non-typical I suppose. My list remains pertinent


Original post by Foo.mp3
Naturally, on balance, but never completely predictable, soft/safe, and never ever lets you down (that would be extremely mundane and a little freaky). You don't appear to have had much experience in relationships so I wouldn't expect you to know it but 'norms' don't find much sustainable success with (desirable) women, particularly youngsters

So because you've had so much experience with relationships yourself, that gives you the ability to understand everyone's take on relationships and their perceptions of attractiveness? Hmm. Rational. :rolleyes:


Original post by Foo.mp3
You seem smart enough to know better than to draw such a silly dichotomy :rolleyes:

No. It is silly to presume that everyone is interested in the same things when it comes to relationships.

Original post by Foo.mp3
No dear, some of your comments, and general style, has an air of 'this one think's she's the bee's knees' about it

Actually that's not true. But you're the narcissist so you would know all about that...

Original post by Foo.mp3
I'm a self confessed narcissist, don't worry about that :smug:



Original post by Foo.mp3
I like to express myself fully, and accurately, where possible, when I can be arsed and deign it beneficial. Rarely am I grandiloquent, or patently verbose, and where I am it's mostly either because I'm spaced out or because I'm self-amusing

Does this mean I can simply attribute your odd ideas to the fact that you're 'not all there' then?


Original post by Foo.mp3
I'm a loser, and I'm ok with that, but Joe Bloggs is worse than a loser, he's beige, just part of the scenery. I have a number of serious flaws, particularly in the context of partnership, but girls still find me attractive, and some, addictive. Joe Bloggs has no major flaws, by contrast, and is the perfect partner on paper, yet he's the kinda guy who never seems to have much luck with girls and people start to wonder if it's because he's gay :erm:

If they only wonder they won't know. He could just be waiting for all these 'girls' to catch up with his maturity level. Addiction is nasty by the way. I hope those girls managed to cure their habit.


Original post by Foo.mp3
You didn't answer my Q btw

What was your question?
Original post by Radville


Wanna bet? :tongue:
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I am single because I dont like the guys that I live amongst (within my local area) who like me but have no chance as they are not my cup of tea and never will be and I don’t get out as much as I did in my teens so obviously wont meet the right kind of fella... and that is why I am single :tongue:.

I sound like a right stuck up bit*h, I am not, I just want better for myself than what they can offer me which would be 3 kids with 8siblings by 8 other mothers. Not my style lol.
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Original post by Handsome_Devil
Wanna bet? :tongue:


Oooh I'd be totally winning it!:biggrin:


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I know when I get involved with guys, I fall for them hard and it really messes with my head. I can't work as well because I spend so much time thinking about them. So, I am avoiding a relationship either until I have formulated a way of studying that separates my study time from my me time, or until I finish uni.
Don't think that's unreasonable:rolleyes:
Original post by Radville
Oooh I'd be totally winning it!:biggrin:


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I'd only have to admit to being interested in you to win, I like these odds :wink:
I'm single because I haven't fallen in love yet. I've fancied guys but not fallen in love with them. I'll just wait for the right man to come along. *sigh* :hugs:
There's a few reasons... The main ones being
- I don't get out there enough and socialise, network etc.
- I'm not the most physically attractive woman and I don't think I'm the kind of girl a guy would dream as having as his girlfriend
- I'm insecure and painfully shy
Original post by Handsome_Devil
I'd only have to admit to being interested in you to win, I like these odds :wink:


Well that doesnt count as you dont even know me, so..:biggrin:


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When I was single, my reason was because I do prefer being in my own company and relationships were too much work. Which in a lot of ways they are.
Original post by Radville
Well that doesnt count as you dont even know me, so..:biggrin:


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Do I need to know you to be interested though? :tongue:
Original post by Anonymous
Because I love someone who will never love me. He's too old for me, and going to marry another woman. I'm delighted for him, and hope she makes him the happiest man in the world. However, I think it will be a long time/ never before I can even consider someone who isn't him in that way, never mind feel for them with the potency I feel for him.

Totally in the same boat myself.it hurts*so much :frown:
I would rather be single than with someone who is only using me for sex or who isn't serious about me. I left my ex boyfriend because I didn't love him. Basically I'm single as I have high standards and I'm not willing to settle
Because guys are intimidated by me.
Original post by Handsome_Devil
Do I need to know you to be interested though? :tongue:


Probably not, but atleast you should know how i look or smth?:biggrin:


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Original post by EllainKahlo
Because guys are intimidated by me.

Same here I think.... This is me.

Original post by D_ecrivaine
Same here I think.... This is me.



The link didn't work. I had two people alone yesterday ask me why I looked so miserable, and to cheer up. Resting bitch face is not something I ever asked for but it's not something I should have to change.
Original post by EllainKahlo
The link didn't work. I had two people alone yesterday ask me why I looked so miserable, and to cheer up. Resting bitch face is not something I ever asked for but it's not something I should have to change.


It says attachment pending approval, wonder how long that'll take.
Yeah, generally people don't bother me (perhaps its UK vs. American culture) but my coworkers still joke about how when I first started everything thought I was super unhappy all the time. I have had guys tell me to smile because I would look prettier, though....

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