Developing feelings for another girl who lives abroad

I think that may be a good call!

After a few days if you don't hear anything, definitely send her a very small casual message, maybe linking her to an article you think she'd like or something equally non-committal. Just make sure you always leave the ball in her court, so there's no confusion about who should be contacting who. For instance, when you finish talking together, close with something like: "and let me know how it goes at your interview!".

So I met thia girl online. Shes realy cool and from france, and the first time we skyped we were very flirty with each other

And ive started to get a bit of a crush on her. Weve skyped a few times since but i feel there wasnt much chemistry as before, even though we spoke for a while

When weve talked about meeting she seems really up for it

The problem is , i feel like im the one who initiates everything and i hate the idea of being to clingy..

Im tempted to leave it a few days and hopefully she will make the first m

Don't, just don't. Save yourself before it's too late, I have been down a similar route and while I met and holidayed with my ex, it wasn't worth it in the end and our last time spent together was one large argument and **** session with others, I was left incredibly hurt.

Find a British girl or at the least, an international living here