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Is kissing good or exciting or just something we do?

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What's wrong people on here.

Kissing is one of the most intimate and passionate things a couple can share.

It's a real turn on when done with the right person and often leads to more.

I miss having that :frown:

Reply 41

AnharM

Original post by Anonymous

I've recently started seeing a new guy and like all other boys I've kissed i just don't feel like the moment is special or nice. Kissing seems like a chore that just has to be done. Is it just me that thinks kissing is in a sense boring? I do honestly like this guy and I have done with all others but I quiet simply just don't get the whole concept?!!!

I feel the same way...kissing is just boring. It doesn't turn me on at all

Reply 42

AnharM

Original post by phunky_fresh

The first guy that tried to kiss me had bad breath. Then I didn't enjoy my first boyfriends kisses at all and from there I was pretty much put off. I avoided kisses for years, then I met a guy two years ago and realised it wasn't that bad. It wasn't mind blowing or anything, the best kiss we shared was an angry kiss. The most recent kiss was okay, I can't remember much of it (I wasn't drunk and was only last week) it just happened and since I have no complaints, I guess I could say it was decent.

Looool bad breath 😂😂

Reply 43

Anonymous #1

Would it have anything to do with the fact that this is a very recent thing. I haven't been seeing him for long and we are still practically strangers to one another????

Reply 44

Anonymous #1

Original post by LaurenG23

If you don't seem to fancy people in the same way as others do you could be asexual?

I am, and because of that I don't get sexually attracted to the people I am with. As a result kissing is nice emotionally but I don't experience what other people here are describing.

I wouldn't say you are abnormal anyway, whether you are or not :smile:

Dumb question it may seem but can you elaborate more on the asexual part??

Reply 45

dialemforemily

I was seeing a guy a while ago and he was quite, well, experienced, and a bit arrogant about his "kissing skills", but i did not find it "fun" or "passionate".

All he wanted to do was make out all the time and it was soooo boring. I did like the guy, but i wasn't really attracted to him i guess, i couldn't imagine doing anything more than kissing with him, kissing was boring enough haha

Reply 46

Anonymous #5

Still waiting for my turn :smile:

Reply 47

zolmar0192

I was my gf's first kiss.. It was absolutely magical!

Reply 48

Kaiju

Original post by gohohome

Heyyy that's mean. Some people just don't like kissing.

What's wrong with being a sociopath?

Original post by hektik

Maybe you're a sociopath.

Implying sociopaths can't enjoy kissing - nah.

OT:
Maybe you're just not that into it, OP.
I don't really get that much from grapefruit and everyone I know loves the stuff.
Each to their own, y0.

(edited 9 years ago)

Reply 49

gohohome

Original post by Kaiju

What's wrong with being a sociopath?

Nothing! I just don't like it when people phrase insults like that eg 'that's retarded' or 'that's gay' – it's mean!

Reply 50

Anonymous #4

Original post by AnharM

Looool bad breath 😂😂

It was horrible :frown:

Reply 51

Anonymous #6

okay so after reading this, alarm bells are ringing loud and clear as i dont feel anything when I kiss my boyfriend of almost three years... :curious:

maybe i need to have a little think about some things!

Reply 52

kumon

Just a friendly reminder of herpes. Be glad you're a virgin non kisser :biggrin:

Reply 53

Calpurnia

Original post by Slim and proud

Amen.

Reply 54

LeKyleRemzi

I believe that at the beginning of a relationship any sexually intended form of contact is amazing and passionate. Then whilst you are still in the stage of a relationship that seeing each other still excites you and you generally enjoy touching them at any point you can but once its less exciting or you have been together for a while it may become a little tedious for some it's a sign of feelings to the significant other to show that the love is still in the air i guess i can only talk from experience for the first two stages i spoke about but i'm yet to make it to the third so i'm guessing for the third stage.
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