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I do have some of my ex and a past fling (both guys) but I forgot to delete them.
I hide all of those photos in a password protected app so I end up forgetting about them. :mmm:
Yeah, I'll never be sending any again. None of them have ever been shared, but I've had some other bad experiences regarding nude photos.
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To be honest, I really don't think it's a good idea. I have sent 'naughty' photos before and regretted it as soon as I hit send. I know the person kept them for a while after we split too which is unnerving and not uncommon. Can you really trust a past lover with such photos? Also filmed a sex tape and we split a few weeks after. A few weeks after the split, he drunk texted me and said he hasn't deleted the video. I wouldn't be shocked if he still has it, which is extremely unnerving, as it turns out he's a very bitter, jealous, egotistical 'nice guy'.

I have received nude pictures before which I have deleted immediately. I don't want pictures like that on my phone. I don't find pictures of penises attractive or sexy. It just does nothing for me. I only like penises in person.
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Meat? It's pictures of your partner, for times you want to masturbate. Nothing all imoral
Hide it app? That thing is a work of genius!

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Reply 24
Original post by Anonymous
Wtf that's disgusting
You do not own women
And should not be allowed to even say that
You make me sick

I think, this is a joke? No need to overreact.
Yes, I've got quite a few naked photos and videos of my girl on my phone. I used to have more, but she deleted them, which is a shame. I still look at her naked pictures often, she's so sexy.

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Please don't feel pressured into doing something so stupid. Nothing good can come of sending a naked photo. Surely any fella would much prefer to see you naked in real life and shouldn't need a picture. It's easy to think you're going to be together forever but the truth is many people break up, and then there's nothing to stop your ex posting your private pic online to get back at you or whatever. Once your picture is online, loads of people can see it and it can be very difficult to get websites to take it down. It can affect your career, your relationships and really mess up your life.
there are more exciting things than a photo of a body lets be honest
Reply 28
Received nudes, never sent
Do both all the time as I hardly ever go out due to overly strict parents so never been able to have a proper girlfriend, never saved any though. All on snapchat :biggrin:.
I used to have loads of nude photos and a few videos of my ex. Some are stored in my sony vaio laptop which crashed. I have lots of important documents in there as well but so scared of taking it to repairs. I would not want anyone to see and spread them online.

Can anyone help?.. i cant scrap the laptop either as im worried someone might see the files.:confused:
Reply 31
Of course this happens all the while. You do not think of the potential issues when you are in love and shagging eachother senseless. But it then leads to some despicable revenge opportunities after a bitter breakup. I hope I would never do this no matter how badly I felt treated. Probably soon everyone will have a naked photograph on a cloud somewhere and it will become a boring non issue.
I have none on there and haven't sent any.

You wanna see me then see me in person is what I go by.
The chance of nudes leaking is way to high, plus if you fall out with the person then they could spread them deliberately.
Dont watch porn so no
Original post by jesuislorenzo
LOOOL same here! I don't let anyone touch my phone.


Exactly,I always have a passcode on my iphone
Original post by Zarek
Of course this happens all the while. You do not think of the potential issues when you are in love and shagging eachother senseless. But it then leads to some despicable revenge opportunities after a bitter breakup. I hope I would never do this no matter how badly I felt treated. Probably soon everyone will have a naked photograph on a cloud somewhere and it will become a boring non issue.


Tis true. My ex's were always respectful even after we broke up and had our issues but I know my friend's ex used her photos as revenge
Original post by queen-bee
Exactly,I always have a passcode on my iphone


You know if your phone gets stolen all they need is a iphone usb lol.
Original post by matthewduncan
You know if your phone gets stolen all they need is a iphone usb lol.


I should probably delete them or transfer them elsewhere
Original post by queen-bee
I should probably delete them or transfer them elsewhere


Up to you b
Original post by Foo.mp3
Element of truth in this tbh

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Ditto. Not classy, and I doubt anyone wants to see my junk prior to 'go-time' either! :erm:

Yup

Unfortunately when young people feel aggrieved the temptation is to 'lash out', and if you have material that could cause serious embarrassment at your disposal, well.. many douchebros will consider it. Girls need to understand this potential and I think this sort of thing should continue make its way into sex/relationship education, for sure

Among certain 'types', perhaps. I've spoken to many women in the world of online dating and it is becoming something of a norm there, certainly a lot of guys requesting them or sending pics of themselves, sometimes shockingly, at random :lolwut:

I find it deeply troubling that school-kids are doing this

Only if you're 18+, they're tasteful, and you're sending them to a cast iron character whom can be trusted

1) How did he have the teacher's number in the first place? :confused:

2) Did he get disciplined?

True, but they certainly help, esp. if you're in a LDR

Amateur :pierre:

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My money's on him still having access to them :scrooge:

..and that's before you consider e.g. the potential for getting hacked, or someone going on your device and coming across them randomly/nosily as pinkbullets suggests :s-smilie:

Childsplay, and doesn’t do much for guys (erotic imagination is much more powerful in females)

Vintage voyeurism! :gah:

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I’d have thought you were more sensible than that

What a guy :h:

Textbook example of why you just don't do it ladies. You will literally end up with ‘some Abdul’ pedalling your flesh :rolleyes:

Sure you did sport :wink:

You hope..

1) Why, when you were intimate partners, should it be unnerving (unless you requested they delete them and they flat our refused). I wouldn't mind an ex of mine holding on to such things (provided there was trust, and you don't enter a relationship with someone you don't trust, or indeed with someone who isn't trustworthy - if you're sensible), indeed a part of me would be chuffed

2) Presumably you knew it's not uncommon before you hit send?

Sorry but as much as he sounds like a dick, really you should know better, and if you revealed those choices to me in a dating situation I would probably have to discount you completely as ‘girlfriend material’. Ultimately guys need to know they can trust their girl to be sensible, especially when it comes to ‘sharing’ their bodies

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Methinks like 90% of girls would agree. Only time I’ve sent such a pic was to prove a point *if you’ll pardon the pun,* to a girl I was speaking to on TSR actually :teehee:

Best bet is to get hold of another such laptop on eBay, lookup the related YouTube 'How To' vid(s), and then swap the hard drives over, backup the data you need off there then reformat the hard drive before placing it back into your broken laptop and listing it as 'For Parts Not Working' :borat:

Yeah..

Trust me, it's not :unimpressed:


The chances of my iPhone getting hacked into or being lost/stolen at very rare so actually I have been sensible because ive had this phone for almost 2 years now.
I am waiting to delete them once I find somewhere safe to keep them. I already have a few semi erotic belly dancing vids in the stash I shared with my first ex and some home made stuff we did together but will probably transfer all my photos on my phone to a USB stick and lock it up together with my vids

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